Guys, do you consider a girl’s body count to be an important factor in dating?

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HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

It matters a lot to me. I don't want a girl that "had her fun" or her "hoe phase". I don't care if you're a virgin or not, because everyone can make mistakes. It's better to leave a relationship to find someone compatible than to end up miserable for a long time. As long as a girl has only been with guys with the intention of being with them long term or to get married, that's what I care about. If they've had a hookup history, or been involved in orgies or consented gang bangs, I'm definitely not into that.

Realistically the type of girl I'd be into would have been in less than 10 serious relationships (and that's being generous). So if her body count is more than 10, that's a pretty big red flag to me.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I have never asked a woman's body count. I accept the idea that a girl could have a promiscuous past but be ready for a committed relationship now. What is most important is her attitude about sex now: is it a recreational activity to be enjoyed with whoever is present in the moment, or is it an expression of love between two committed partners? I can perceive her attitude without ever asking her body count.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm just here for the results
Because I have 2 bodies but that was 4 years ago and I don't use toys or my hands to masturbate, so I feel like I'm inexperienced again
I can barely remember the dick feeling
All I remember is feeling intense pressure and feeling it in my abdomen and back

Paige90 · Accepted Answer

I am not concerned about what someone did before me.

Finchie40 · Answer

Not really , as long as she has good moral values and is honest and loving to me , her past doesn’t really mean shit to me , because I wasn’t a part of it , but if she had a horrible reputation of being easy and spreading her legs every chance she got with random guys’ then that’s a girl I wouldn’t get into a relationship with with because she is more prone to cheating over anything else

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

What she feels about her body count tells me everything I need to know. How she tells me, how long she tries to hide it, how much effort it takes to get it out of her and if she ever lies about it and how confidently she tells me when she's ready.

Ill take a girl who has a body count of fifty and tells me in my eyes after she has time to feel safe around me and leave the one who's super ashamed over her 15 bodies or borderline brags about her 20 bodies as if it's unreasonable for a man to take a step back if they hear that.

People constantly change, especially woman. I care about where you're going, not as much about where you've been.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

In terms of dating in the attempt to find a long-term or permanent relationship, I'd be super adverse to girls with more than 1-3. The problem for me isn't so much that she's been with other men as much as that she's had experiences that *I* will ultimately be punished for.

Some girls slut around, give it away free for years, then decide to finally settle down, but the man they settle with/for always ends up in a sexless marriage, because now she desperately tries to separate the relationship from sex.

However, being older and much more experienced, I'm not dating for long-term anything, so I prefer girls still in their slut phases. Some women, that never ends. Good for me :)

Twalli · Answer

It really depends on her views regarding sex. If she has no problem having sex on a first date, it's less of an issue if she has a high body count. If she only does it in the context of a relationship, it's different. I don't go for short relationships. If I'm in one, I want to be with her for a long time (possibly life). A girl who has sex only in relationships shouldn't have that high of a body count, or else I can't trust that she can do a long-term relationship. So it really depends on when she has sex with someone.

RavVid · Answer

I think it is a variable factor.

If the objective is just sex and a good time who cares so long as you get in. You could even form a club with the other guys who have been in her.

If the objective is a long term relationship that you will invest in than it should matter to a guy. Quite clearly if a girl has averaged two weeks per guy, you are being unrealistic if you expect longer.

Generally you have a 50% chance of getting to 8 years and a 40% chance of getting to 10 years with girls that wanted to marry. There are strong stats that say the more guys a girl has been with, the less happier she will be with you to a 95% confidence level.

Anonymous · Answer

Indubitably! But within reason.

I'm in my late 40's of course I'd rather she a virgin. But that's virtually non existent for a woman in her late 40's. And her not being a virgin does not make her a wrecked woman. But there's a big f***ing difference between 2 and 200. I concede that woman has probably made some mistakes and picked some frogs. But anything in the double digits? No thank you! At some point you have to conclude she's not very smart (doesn't make good decisions or learn from her mistakes). Or equally as bad, she simply not of good character. You do not marry or (for younger guys) start a family with that type of woman. You will ALWAYS have problems. She's disqualifying herself for you. Say "thank you"!👍😆

InknKink · Answer

I don't care so long as I don't know. And I prefer not to know.

If she for whatever reason decides to tell me... anything under 20 is fine. Anything above that starts to get a bit dicey but I can swallow my judgment provides it's not some insane triple digit number.

Miristheiss · Answer

Yes, I 100% reject the sexual revolution, the birth control pill and all of the promiscuity and sleeping around of the last 50 years.

Women that have slept around before were gross to me relationship wise. I married a non-promiscuous woman.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I prefer a girl with a body count minimum of 10. I'm not here to patiently train some delicate little passive introverted flower or deal with her sexual hang ups from fucked up religious beliefs.

MJVillarama · Answer

Honestly, I think what matters way more is how someone treats you and the kind of connection you build together. A number doesn’t tell you anything about a person’s values, loyalty, or ability to be a great partner. Everyone has a past, what matters is who they are with you now.

Anonymous · Answer

outside of her true feelings towards Charlie Kirk's assassination, yes body count is important. anyone saying otherwise is just lying to themselves to cope

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I don't care, as long as she's emotionally healthy by the time I meet her.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

I wouldn't want her if half of Windsor (230,000 population) bopped her, but if she's had a normal number of boyfriends, it wouldn't much matter.

Pohjolan · Answer

Body count itself doesn't matter that much but its a strong indicator of what her personality is like. Like women with higher body counts are more likely to cheat.

aceleon · Answer

top 3 most important thing. no one likes a slut (if they are not secretly or openly into cuckoldry)

BarryLiverstone · Answer

It’s not very important, at least 10 more important things

LiamJHayden · Answer

I've never asked and have been asked, except online.

Phoenix98 · Answer

It's an important thing to consider for a variety of reasons.

qwerty2469 · Answer

I married a virgin and have made a decent life. Married for 20 years. I got lucky. I would have never married anyone that had more than 1 other dick inside them.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, very much so. I'm not into casual sex so when I date a girl I'm looking for a bride. Body count is a very important factor when looking for a life mate.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not that much important. Why?  Because I'm a virgin, and it's better for her to be more experienced.  I like dominant girls, and they are most likely experienced enough,

exitseven · Answer

if she has a big body count she might put out.

DrPepper12 · Answer

ABSO-FUCKING-LUTELY IRRELEVANT

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I don’t ask and neither do they.

oswaldcobblepot · Answer

I wouldn't want to know

seeyounexttuesday · Answer

of course. It's a potential dealbreaker.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

Significantly, to someone like clean me

jahaims · Answer

Duh.

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