Why are women willing to throw away entire relationships over body modifications to themselves they CHOSE to do?

[Anonymous]

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8 mo

While having a partner that's expressed early into the relationship they're not into body modifications

[Abbycado]

Like piercings? How is that throwing a relationship away?

[Asker]

Well something more permanent like a tattoo or plastic surgery but sure if even if the partner expressed they're not into piercings and then they go and get one

[Abbycado]

Lmao. I'm glad my boyfriend is a controlling asshole. XD

@HollyK21 lol

[HollyK21]

Lmao his opinion is so grossly entitled. I fucking hate men who think they can dictate what a woman does to her body. Losing weight is technically a permanent body modification, so if I were morbidly obese but my partner loved it, I should just hang onto all the weight forever because he doesn’t like it?

[HollyK21]

And by “doesn’t like it” I mean the weight loss.

[Asker]

Not sure who you think is controlling, they are free to do whatever they want but I won't stick around if I'm not attracted to it if you're willing to go and do something like that and throw it away over it, you can find a guy who likes it and I'll find another girl who doesn't

[HollyK21]

So then YOU are the one throwing away the relationship, not her. YOU are the one walking away, not her.

[HollyK21]

Also, giving someone ultimatums is controlling.

[Asker]

She chose to throw it away when she thought I'd be on board with something I've expressed several times I'm not in/attracted to, wanting someone to stay when you do something they've expressed their distaste of is controlling because someone can't help the way they feel about something but they can help changing themselves