How can people deal with living with somebody forever?

[bunniesrcute]

Im currently living on my own and couldnt imagine having to deal with somebody 24/7. Especially when its the same person, seems boring and awful. i remember i moved out as soon as i could when i turned 18.

[Genie23]

Actually, living with someone all the time doesn’t mean you’re always in the same room or constantly talking. I grew up in a big family, and even though we lived together, we still had our own space. We’d spend some time together every day—usually at dinner.. and then everyone would go off to do their own thing. One person would often read a novel in his room, another would play music, and so on. It was kinda nice because we could be together but still have time for ourselves.

[Nikki1989]

Who has to deal with someone 24/7?

People have jobs; people have their interests and social lives. I don't know anyone who is with their partner 24/7. I don't see my husband enough, if anything.

[bunniesrcute]

u work every single dayc

[RHK36]

Just sounds like projecting. Means you know how difficult you can be so you couldn't possibly imagine living with another of yourself. Some people are okay living with people and others are okay living alone. Not that difficult to grasp.

[bunniesrcute]

yeah definetly, im an awful person to live with. thats why i can't imagine living with somebody.

[bunniesrcute]

touched a nerve there i think…

[slatyb]

You haven't met the right person yet. When you meet them, you won't be asking this question.

[bunniesrcute]

yeah no

[itsannalee]

It just because you never met the right person or it’s just because people around you are boring af.

[bunniesrcute]

no i can't be with somebody for longer than maybe 2-3 hours. like my friends or family.

[wkhan_87]

It is not that hard

[bunniesrcute]

how?

[wkhan_87]

Just give some space to each other

[bunniesrcute]

okay