What are some cultural views on appearance and aestheticism?

The Chinese have a term called Qizhi which most dictionaries translate as disposition or temperament, and since I do not know the precise meaning, it seems to relate to social composure, subtle unstated dignity, and behavioural smoothness when it is related by a man.

As a female, my top visual trait in a men is their cultural and mental ambiance and my top social trait in a man is their mental fluidity, their underlying or extraneous psychological boundaries, and their subdued personal energy.

What are some cultural views on appearance and aestheticism?
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