Date a cheater?

[Anonymous]

Would you date someone who has previously cheated on their ex partner? And how likely can he/she be trusted based on your past experiences?

[Hardon-Collider]

Why do people still pretend that we live in the previous century and privacy exists? Google already sees and hears you 24/7. You lose nothing if your partner hears you too. If you have trust doubts, think about installing the same apps on your phone that prevent getting lost or allow spotting kidnappings. Which also record battery levels and poweroff reasons, to eliminate the possible excuse of "the battery died". ㅤ

[FreyaRed]

Such a guy would be useless in terms of relationship. Every attempt to establish an emotional bond from his site would be ridiculous. The truth is some people can't be trusted because they are clowns who can't control themselves, even if their efforts to convince you seem to be sincere. You have to know it better, the truth is cheaters always cheat it's their nature.
Best option is to use them as long it's fun and then let them fall before they can cause any damage to your soul. When such a guy comes an tries a to play a moral prodigy, destroy him with cynicism, because he is doesn't deserve any sympathy. He is just a parasite who lives for cheating, it's practically the highest good in his books.

[Genie23]

I would rather not. Some might have changed their behaviour and became a good, loyal partner, true... but most of the people who cheat don't seem to have control over their urges. They'll apologise to you and give you excuses/justification for their behaviour. They'll promise you they won't hurt you again, but they most likely will. I'd rather not take the risk of being betrayed and getting hurt.

[OlderAndWiser]

How old were they when they cheated? How long did it last? How long ago did it end? Did they cheat with more than one person? Was the cheater cheating with opposite sex, same sex, or both? How did I learn that she had cheated on a previous partner?

[Asker]

In his previous marriage, his wife cheated first, so he cheated back but def more then once. He was very honest about it.

[OlderAndWiser]

I would proceed cautiously under these circumstances.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'd rather not give them the chance only cause there's many more people that haven't cheated on their partners

[OneViewpoint]

Depends. Why are you dating this person? Are you looking for a forever scenario with the white picket fence and 3 kids? Or are you having a blazing hot affair for 3 months?

[abbyjgriffin98]

No, I couldn't. There's no good reason to cheat on someone and if he did it before, he could do it again.

[WhitneySnow]

That would make me very reluctant to date them unless I knew for sure they’d changed

[Asker]

I’ve had my doubts. But i do very indeed like him

[WhitneySnow]

Be very careful

What makes you think he’s changed?

[Nikki1989]

I would prefer not to, but it wouldn't be a dealbreaker either.

[Anonymous]

It wouldn't be good sign. I wouldn't rule it out until I had a better understanding of what exactly happened.

[Staximus]

"Once a cheater, always a cheater" is usually true

[beenherebefore]

No and cannot be trusted.

[jahaims]

Nope