Would You Date a Former Cheater?

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Iranar · Accepted Answer

Depends on the kind of cheating, one night wildness can be forgiven if it's not usual, parallel relationships or repetitive cheating destroys trust, and I can't love someone I don't trust. I've been cheated on twice (by diferent girls) and even though the first time I tried to forgive and repair, trust is easier lost than won. The second time, we broke up and even if it was hard we have managed to stablish a healthy friendship. But I can't see my self in a relationship with her again.

Mexicoman101 · Accepted Answer

It depends on why she did it. Under most circumstances, no. But if the guy she was dating was refusing to fuck her for years on end, was hitting her regularly, or something like that, I wouldn't distrust her offhand. She'd have to work extra to earn my trust, but it would be attainable.

Fitness-Fanatic · Accepted Answer

No, because it shows their potential with me. I couldn't place my trust in a guy who's already given me one good reason why he can't be trusted. People who cheat , have no self-control over their desires and emotions. So opportunity will always control their loyalty. It's a weakness in their character.

I can overlook some things, but never infidelity. I value loyalty above all else. Someone who has cheated in the past could never earn my trust or respect

lost_girl2000 · Accepted Answer

Some people say "once a cheater, always a cheater". I do not necessarily agree that it's true for every person, however it would be very hard to trust my partner if he had done something like this in the past, especially if he believes it was not that big of a deal. Cheating on someone is one of the worst things a person can do to another, in my opinion.

aconfusedgirlie · Accepted Answer

It depends on a lot of things. If he cheated with me while in a relationship no. If he still does things that seem like he isn’t trustworthy no. If I can trust him and I know he cares about me yes I’d date him. If it was ages ago and he says he regrets it and shows it then yes. It all depends on the vibes I get from the situation 😂😂

Wonderer89 · Accepted Answer

It would depend... why did they cheat, were they remorseful, what do they think of their previous behaviour and how much I believe them saying it wouldn’t happen again.

I wouldn’t rule it out, depending on the situation and their reaction to telling me

PrincessPie · Answer

Probably yes, I mean lots of people won’t tell you if they have cheated in a relationship before you so I’d not be wise to it.

Pinay_ako · Answer

If he cheated with you on his last ex, then HELL NO. He will do the same thing to you.

karahiri · Answer

I feel like... most people have been disingenuous at some point in their lives. So yes.

Lovemycountryboy · Answer

Hell no I would not because if i were dating a cheater that did it in the past and or that is continuing to do it I would not be happy and I would do several things to him that will make him regret it...
And NO ONE should ever cheat it pointless when u got with ur partner Dont go behind her his back and start doing shit...
People who do cheat are stupid it the truth

acooke-13 · Answer

No I wouldn't, simply because I have given a cheater a chance and they proved me to never do that again!

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

No. They have shown their character and its glaring flaws. Statistically those who cheat are more likely to do it again. While people can change, they rarely do.

JulieXO · Answer

I would. People can change, and just because he cheated on some other chick doens't mean he'll do the same to me.

madhatters4 · Answer

if i felt confident that they had changed their ways yes i would

Carley99 · Answer

Yes the past is the past and I'm doing it right now.

Kaylathefaerie · Answer

Give them the chance but if they screw you over then they gotta go

AzureGirl · Answer

Nope, I’m not going to give them the chance to cheat on me too.

HappyWheels · Answer

Heck no. If they have cheated on someone before and I find out, they can bugger off. Why would I set myself up for that? In most cases, once a cheat, always a cheat.

BrianMerritt · Answer

Nope. A person who has a failing history of commitment, self-discipline, and self-control are not spouse material.

Wolframium · Answer

Not really, not anymore. Did that mistake once and it ended up exactly, how I knew it will end.

LegateLanius · Answer

No. Past behavior is a good indicator of future actions unless they really, profoundly changed. Most people fall right back into the same old thing.

lilmissumshine · Answer

Absolutely not history repeats itself and I don't have time for it.

PrinceNeo · Answer

Fuck no if they do it once they'll do it again no point in wasting your time with someone who says they'll change but they won't

Anonymous · Answer

My boyfriend has cheated twice but he's such a studmuffin I took him back.

BHooper · Answer

I believe in second chances. Just who you give them to is where you may go wrong.

Guanfei · Answer

No, and if I did, I would always be scared she does the same to me.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends how long it's been, why they did it and how many times they did it

britpop · Answer

I would give him a clean slate but if he messed up no lines would work

JudgmentDay · Answer

I don't date anybody either way. Have no need to.

effyourfeelings · Answer

Yeah I think my crush is a former cheater

Duke1985 · Answer

Dating, yes. But not a real relationship. Never.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

How will I know?

Gedaria · Answer

We are all cheaters deep down...

AM-205 · Answer

If that person was, but is sorry.

Rick912 · Answer

I have and married her.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, all girls today cheat.

MrManga · Answer

No, honesty and trust is very important to me.

TheFlak38 · Answer

How would I know?

maiave · Answer

Nah I wouldn’t

cokeboy · Answer

A cheat is always a cheat

omgjassy · Answer

Won’t ever.

rgb008 · Answer

Nope.

dwiller943 · Answer

Depends...

xZoeyx · Answer

Nope

moonpie89 · Answer

Possibly

Rosewanda · Answer

No, I sure wouldn't.

CT_CD · Answer

I'm Asexual

MisterSir · Answer

i'm asexual

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