When men did start asking you to pay for meals?

[Justneedtokno]

So I was seeing this guy and he keep asking for money, the other night we went out and he wanted me to pay. “ Now if this was three date I don’t mind paying) especially since his birthday was coming up.

[Summeroflove]

Some men pay some don’t. I think a lot of men just genuinely hate entitled behavior for some it’s a test for others they just don’t wanna pay.

But if someone’s asking for money especially early on that’s a issue. I will pay if someone feels entitled to it or isn’t grateful. Then I won’t go out with her. If you require a man to pay that you’re going to be dating. Pay your half… and don’t go out with him again. You don’t have to pay his.

[AviatorTom]

I you and he have similar incomes, or you make more money than he does, why shouldn't you pay sometimes for the date?

This started with the feminism movement in the 1960s, which became more radical in the 1990s.

[itsannalee]

I dated him for 3 years and married now, and never paid a single meal for both of us when we i go out with him. I only paid for meals like when i go out alone like for breakfast then bring home the foods for him, or buy his favorite food by myself.
I choose provider and a leader man.

[douride2]

I have always paid for my own meals. A guy always asking for money is a big red flag in my books.

[HighValue]

Unless a woman is truly traditional (saving herself for marriage/virgin, no tattoos, no nose piercings, no social media, no smartphone, defers all decisions to the man, does all the homemaking chores, etc.) she does NOT deserve to be provided for.

[msc545]

You are an adult. Pay for your own goddamn food or don't go out. You are not a child that needs to be cared for by an adult, whether it's a male or a female.

[glennos89]

Most woman expect men to pay. But because a lot of woman take advantage of our chivalry he might be testing you to see if your genuine or just want a free meal

[jahaims]

You don't get equal rights without equal consequence obviously. You want the benefits of both genders without the consequences.

[Ariesman81]

Sounds like you should have put out on date #1 or 2

[Nerdvana]

When women started demanding to pay for themselves.

[Yellovv]

I never let any girl pay for meals beside me, I allways pay for meals..

[Anonymous]

Men only ask women to pay if they don't like that that much.

[Nikki1989]

They never have.

[eagle1951]

never asked any girl for money

[Siajanua2027]

Let him go!