Is it normal that we haven’t texted for 4 days? Is he leading me on or I should just give him space?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been talking regularly for 2 months. We live in different countries. Last week our conversations were shorter then normally. Then I unfriended him on snapchat. He reached out the next day on ig. He explained that he has exam season and is getting ready for the exams. He promised that he will give me more time after his exams

this week last time were talking was in Tuesday and now it’s Sunday. Is he leading me on or I should just give him space?

[HollyK21]

I think the better question would be what are your expectations for this man. You two are in different countries, not even like the next city/state over or something. Is there a silver lining to this? Does one plan on moving closer to the other if you are pursuing romance? If he’s busy with school right now then it is what it is, but you don’t wanna be just a woman he talks to in his free time. You want to be on the same page about working towards something feasible and not just fantasizing.

[Asker]

He did ask if I would move to his country. He seemed serious guy thats looking for long term relationship

[Abbycado]

“He explained that he has exam season and is getting ready for the exams. He promised that he will give me more time after his exams”

How do you not know the answer to your own question?

[Asker]

In the past I’ve been lead on by guy and I don’t want to get my hopes up

[Abbycado]

He clearly explained it to you.

[Asker]

Some people believe that if guy is interested he will make time even if he was busy

[Abbycado]

Yes, they are called crazy people.

[Asker]

I know sometimes I do sabotage myself. My fear is that he’s talking to other women and I’m just getting led on

[Anonymous]

It's completely normal, sometimes I don't text for months.

[beenherebefore]

Give him space and see what happens. Exam season can be pretty demanding.

[Asker]

I know sometimes I do sabotage myself. My fear is that he’s talking to other women and I’m just getting led on

[beenherebefore]

If this is not a committed relationship yet chances are he's talking to other women and that's something you have to leave with.

[Alex-Snow]

Maybe he found someone else?

[Asker]

I don't know, I’m keeping my options open.

[In_Trance]

Wasting your time. Move on