Has dating ever felt like a waste of time and resources because you were having no luck finding someone with a similar moral compass?

[Awesomesauce2005]

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

I thought "going on a date" meant spending time with someone you already trust and are building memories with.

More likely you cofused it with semen extraction appointments. ㅤ

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

If dating means going into a long list of interviews hoping to find the more fitting person, then it looks like a job, so I'd understand it feels like wasting time and resources.

If dating means meeting people and getting to know them while enjoying that very concept then there isn't any time or resources wasted, just time spent doing something interesting.

I have never attempted the first option, this one seems really awful...

[egan3141]

This is a good point. What has been a waste of time for me isn't the dates themselves, it's the looking for dates.

[Crimsyjo]

Yep dating is not looming forward needle in a haystack. It's looking for a clean needle in 100 piles of dirty needles!

[Nikki1989]

Nah. My dating years were non-stop fun. No regrets there.

[Awesomesauce2005]

No surprise, you are a female. You had your pick

[Chazmatazz269]

Yup. That’s why i quit dating.

[egan3141]

Ever? More like always! I still haven't found someone with a similar moral compass near my age that's not already taken.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Good to know I'm not alone in my endeavor

[egan3141]

Strike that, I did find 1 woman, but she was taken when I found her and moved away for college shortly after she became single. I'm still in contact with her and still hoping that she moves back and I can get her before someone else does. I still don't know that much about her, but the little bit I do know, she seems like a unicorn

[Billlewis]

No, but I've met plenty of people who, in my opinion, are too fixated on morality.

[NathanDavis]

no, but I don't really date around...

I went straight into a relationship for years

[Anonymous]

Yes, considering the fact that my own moral compass is markedly deranged relative to sexuality is difficult to women by women of the same level of perversion. The ones that I have found tend to be severely mentally ill, much to my regret.