Would you date someone with 20+ previous sexual partners?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Yes

No

[Summeroflove]

Even someone who claims to be reformed dating someone with a lot of sexual partners can lead to trouble. Nobody’s perfect I can’t say if someone genuinely repented I won’t give them a chance because I probably would.

The issue? Someone with a past especially if they don’t regret it. Will likely continue that path…. And some people all the sudden pretend they changed or hide their past. Because they still want to get married and marry the right man and/or woman…. That they know the type of person they want wouldn’t accept them for who they are. So they mask it…. And then cheat on you behind your back. And become resentful comparing you to everyone else before.

This isn’t just for women… it applies to men too. Men who were players and fuckboys demand to marry a virgin whose intentionally saving herself…. Bitch please.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I don't see the point of cherry picking this element at the expense of all the others constituting what and who someone is. For all we know from this very thin context, she could have had a rush somewhere in time and that's it. So, this alone cannot predict fairly her personality, her views and how I'll react.

[Nikki1989]

How would I know that information?

I certainly wouldn't be such a lowlife to actually ask about it.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

So you don't find it a red flag at all?

[DishLady]

How would you know if they'd had so many partners unless you started dating them?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Let's say you knew the fact before going in a date

[DishLady]

Unless someone stalked their clinical records or snooped into their business there's no way anyone would simply know that. Gossip? What?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

He told you in a conversation

[Zack-Bann]

I wouldn’t date her long term


But I wouldn’t judge her either


Last girl I had a crush on had 12 bodies and I didn’t mind that one bit


I think my cut off point is “me having had more partners”


Because it’s not so much the partners themselves that matter but the experiences


If she’s been contorted in every which way a body can go by so many guys in so many places I would feel as though I have nothing to add to it


But if her partners are just exes she thought she’d end up with and didn’t then I’m still enough of a novelty to keep her mind and body engaged

[Levin]

No.

Less chance of successful mating pair.

It's not special if you give it away willy-nilly.

STD's.

Quality over quantity.

Women are valued for their chastity and moral character (which doesn't mean I'm saying they need to be a virgin).

[jazzy34]

Hell no. For all I know, he could have every STD known to man. 🤢

[Zack-Bann]

You know he can be tested for those right?

Not saying that to change your mind about the concept itself but STDs aren’t guaranteed with a large body count

And 20 is hardly 200

[jazzy34]

I still wouldn’t be interested. 1.) People lie about their STD status. 2.) 20 plus partners? Seriously? Dude, get another hobby.

[Zack-Bann]

Mine is 19 accumulated over 5 years

I hardly consider myself sexually active

It comes and it goes

And I got tested recently and have the document proving I’m clean as a whistle (no partner since)

Not saying this to justify the lifestyle itself but I am suggesting that it’s sometimes exaggerated when people assume it’s a wreckless and dirty thing

Sex is sex and it can be done safely

You could also catch an STD from your first partner if you’re that unlucky

[jazzy34]

Okay. Good for you, my friend. Take care. 😊👋🏽

[Anonymous]

If she is really hot and sexually dominant, yes I would.

[Alex-Snow]

Peoples pasts are their pasts. I would ask her to get tested and then enjoy some great sex

[Anonymous]

I never like to say never. But I do see it as very unlikely. I can't imagine her giving me an explanation that would make that palatable.

[Paige90]

Yes I would

[Kelly6]

yes.

[leva543]

I think no.