Why are abusive men never single?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

This is a good question. Number one some people are drawn intentionally to toxic relationships. More often then not the most abusive people learn how to mask it. They learn how to hide it and pretend to be someone they’re not, this also applies to abusive women. That’s why so many shitty women are also always in relationships plus there are men who like toxicity too.

When things do come out about them…. They all have elaborate stories. That someone simply won’t want to believe because they seem too good to be true. Maybe they changed… Maybe someone else was abusive and lied about them and is stalking them…. Things like that. Even if their stories make no sense many people want to believe lies.

[HighValue]

Because contrary to what many women say/claim, they actually do desire some of the worst men. They like drama and problems in life. If they don't have any, they will create some themselves. Many women get bored with a good man.

[DishLady]

I'm sure they are. Just bc you don't see those moments doesn't mean they don't exist.

[Asker]

Sure but the ones I've seen, are never single and they always have women around them

[Zack-Bann]

Because abusive men have a mental advantage early on


They don’t care about or respect women so they are bolder
Un afraid of rejection
They put themselves out there and it doesn’t take much more for a girl to think “ok I’ll give this guy a shot”


Then the abuse begins


And later she has to live with that trauma and she will dump it on every other boyfriend she’ll have after


I’ve been with quite a few women in my life (unfortunately)
And other than the couple of virgins every one of them had been abused at some point
It’s so common it’s not even funny

[Asker]

It's actually pretty funny

[Zack-Bann]

I don’t find it funny

Over and over I end up having to “prove” to a girl that I’m not like the douchbag who abused her

And that’s unfair.
Why do I have to clean up his mess?

In a perfect world I wouldn’t be judged for the actions of another man

But this isn’t a perfect world

So I deal with it. Nothing else to do

[Asker]

I still find it funny

[Zack-Bann]

Why?

[Asker]

Im just fucking you witu you man

[Asker]

With*

[FreyaRed]

Some part of women are attracted to such type of men, they see them as masculine and dominant, while in reality such guys are just used and exploited by smarter people who can control their emotions.
It's some less intelligent female survival strategy from times as we lived in caves and have eaten mammoths.

[Dbman99]

It makes no sense and I’m a 48 year old autistic male will do anything for the girl that I love. I’ve had two good friends who stopped talking to me or pretty much stopped talking to me and responding the same way after I told them I like them. I’ve done everything from online to church musical theater to hobbies to work and nothing is ever gotten me a date or past one or two dates. The last girl I painted her a picture. I brought her coffee a bunch of times, when she was having a bad day, I offered to get her food. I will Do anything for her? What else do I have to do? And these other people who don’t deserve women get women. Women wanna be respected and taken care of. Now my anxiety seems to be having and getting so bad because I just left work by an ambulance because I was having extreme chest pains that went up to my jaw. It wasn’t a heart attack thankfully so maybe it was extreme stress or a panic attack.

[jazzy34]

Because they’re not abusive at first. They’re abusive, not stupid. They know exactly what to say and do to charm a woman into a relationship. Once they’re in, the mask falls off and the abuse begins.

[Asker]

But yet they can tell when a nice guy is supposedly full of crap

[jazzy34]

They who?

[Asker]

The aliens

[jazzy34]

What aliens?

[jazzy34]

The next time you make a post, avoid making generalizations. Not all women reject nice men. Maybe the women YOU know, but that’s not all women. At any rate, I’m done with this stupid conversation. Take care.

[Asker]

Where did i make a generalization?

[CherryLove007]

The very short answer to this is that they NEED supply... so yes supply at all times... or how would they fulfill the demon inside?

[slatyb]

There are plenty of single abusive men. Who do you think commits most of the mass shootings in the US?

[Asker]

None of the ones i met are ever single. They always have a woman to hit

[slatyb]

How many mass shooters have you met?

[Asker]

None. But there were mass shooters who were in relationships

[Nikki1989]

You must be living on another planet. Jeez!

[Asker]

Stay on topic maam. Why are abusive men never single?

[ArrowheadSW]

It is all part of their trip. To ruin someone else's life. They ruin one woman's life and then move on to the next, usually right away.

[CherryLove007]

yes

supply

[ArrowheadSW]

@CherryLove007 Ever notice how they go from one to the next, with little to no lag time between?

[CherryLove007]

@ArrowheadSW yes and how they have the next one ready and groomed up.. maybe and sometimes before the last one goes.

[ArrowheadSW]

@CherryLove007 YES exactly! They often have one ready to go on the side. I've seen it time and again. The same pattern repeats...

[FunkyMonkee]

Women LOVE guys that beat the fuck out of them!! What they DON'T seem to like are nice guys that'll treat them well and give them loads of love!!

[CherryLove007]

shhhhhhhh

maybe therapy might be up your alley someday?

[FunkyMonkee]

@CherryLove007 I certainly don't need any!! But I know of LOTS of girls that do!!

[RavVid]

Women - in general - like confident arrogant guys. Of course there is a down side to what they like.

[Anonymous]

They learned how to play roles.

Abusive men can be very intelligent.

[Asker]

But i thought women have good intuition and know when a man is full of shit

[Opinion Owner]

Then men wouldn't be such successful. M

[Asker]

So women don't have good intuition and its just a bunch of nonsense?

[Anonymous]

There are a lot of very stupid trauma chasing women out there unfortunately.

[queenofcardio]

They are great liars

[Asker]

So much for that good ole intuition women supposedly have

[douride2]

Where are you living?

[Asker]

Im living in California

[Anonymous]

Never? Not a single one of them? 🙄

[Asker]

I've never met an abusive man who wasn't in a relationship

[BadGirlRebellious]

Women like abuse

[Staximus]

Because they're manipulators

[In_Trance]

Who are they going to abuse if they're single?