Is it easier to be single, dating or married?

[Vneila21]

I'm preaching to the choir when I say that life is difficult. We think that what other people have is better than what we have. This sort of thinking messes with our lives.

My next point is I'm in college. The ring before spring culture is insane. I see couples everywhere and yet I realize that I may not see as many couples as I think I see. What I mean by that is there are factors I don't see (where they are in the relationship). It seems better to be in a relationship because of the perceived validation, touch, and company. It takes a lot of adaptation to stay a couple.

Couples need to think about the future. There is the money aspect of buying a house and having kids. Other aspects are the partner's habits to maneuver, feelings to be honest about. If one is not honest about them (bottling them thus keeping them a secret) they won't get along very well. That is the price of creating a harmonious lifestyle. Habits and feelings are not bad they are a part of you; they will be a part of the kids as well.

I would say dating and marriage is an extension of school. While this will be an unpopular opinion, I will explain my reasoning. Anytime, I explain my reasoning I'd rather exercise my thinking than convince you. Dating and Marriage is not fully like school; it doesn't have math, literature and science in that order. School is heavy on the subjects, light on the fun. Dating and marriage is lighter on the subjects. The subjects are needed to keep the boat. Analogy: fun things keep the boat floating. Each semester I'm in college took adaptability to succeed in my courses. Every course is different, so is each person.

Decision-making for dating and marriage has to be unified. I am not saying that couples need to order the same thing at restaurants. I'm saying scheduling vacation times, which school the kid is going to, who's the nanny. Cemented stuff like that.

Singleness is easy by far!

Dating is easy to me

Marriage is much easier

[Anonymous]

Dating or married life is usually easier. Sharing bills, expenses, sharing child care duties. After a terrible day at work, you have your spouse to vent to. If you get sick, there is someone to care for you. Traveling is easy because there will always be someone there to have fun with. Friends come and go in life. Friends might not have the money go travel or they might not be available to travel when you are. Not only this, the physical and emotional intimacy is very important to well being in life. When you have absolutely no one, life definitely gets a lot harder

[Quigly]

This is not true, in modern life both a men and womenl have their own separate expenses. Both are driving cars, Both have separate cell phones. It's two entirely independent people living together.
Modern marriage is not about sickness and health. Every person I know that ended up sick and in the hospital the other person walked out the door. Friends not only have money they also have Freedom, Something married people.

Marriage is not a Moral Religious institution.

[Opinion Owner]

@Quigly

I will give you an example... my fiance has a house that is already paid for. I live with him so I don't have to pay rent. So... its easier for me to save up to buy a car... its easier for us to travel because we both contribute to the travel fund...

its not hard to understand.

plus, we have lots and lots of sex. Something that singles can't get easily unless they go hunting for sex every weekend. If they get lucky, they might get laid once a month. We fuck daily

[Quigly]

LoL There is no such thing as Homeownership. You still have to pay taxes and maintenance which adds up to a lot. It's an endless cycle and it was designed to be that way. The system does not want people to save money.

Marriage is an act of prostitution. The Whore does not Love her Jon. If you do it for money you're not doing it for love. Just because you are with one guy doesn't mean it's not prostitution. You have a Jon and he pays for it.

Anyone can get with a whore.

[Opinion Owner]

@Quigly

Homeownership is way cheaper than renting An apartment. The amount of rent that you pay per year is worth 10 years worth of repairs.

[Opinion Owner]

Taxes are just a couple of thousands a year. Usually less than 10k.

[Changiis07]

question on the travel fund do you all split everything evenly?

[Opinion Owner]

@Changiis07

No we don't. Any guy wh0 tells you he wants to split everything In half, doesn't actually love you. Mark my words

[Quigly]

Marriage is not about Love. It's about financial gain. It was always an act of prostitution. You live with him and are not even Married. When you do it for money, you're not doing it for Love.

[Opinion Owner]

@Quigly

That's what only bitter men who can't get women say

[Quigly]

That's what your Mental Bankruptcy has to say.

[Opinion Owner]

@Quigly

You mad, bro?

[Vneila21]

@Quigly
Dude! Did you know a fight only gets going when you press your opinions on people? If you want someone to agree with you, talk to AI! My question was Not about what marriage is.

[Quigly]

You are literally asking for peoples opinions on a subject.
And Your question is literally a comparison of single, dating and Marriage. So yes, if it's a comparison about what Marriage is.

Are you smoking something today?

[Opinion Owner]

you don't have to take him seriously. Anyone with a well developed adult brain would be able to tell this guy is a deeply bitter, sad, jaded motherfucker who is jealous af.
@vneila21

[Vneila21]

Anonymous: Everyone has their issues. It's too bad that some people just can't own it when they mess up. You're right about taking what he says with a grain of salt. I'm just making sure this thread does not escalate any further.

Quincy: Maybe, maybe not, here's another question since you're on a spree, "What does love mean to you?" It's a different question to "What is love?" Because if love does not mean something to you, you can't define it. Love (in its natural form) makes meaning.
By the way, I liked the jacket you wore this morning. The weather's chilly isn't it?

[Quigly]

First off, single and dating is the same thing. Just thought I would point that out.
Second: The person I was replying to was saying how Much better marriage is when she isn't even Married. She basically went down to the bar and got with a guy for a free place to live. She's a ho for the money. She's not getting Married for any other purpose. Her only purpose in Marriage is to take his Money. This is why it's unethical to live with a person before you are Married.

What is Love:
Jesus taught us what Love is, Love is a sacrifice.
You have to Keep in mind Jesus was a God. At any point in time he could have stopped what was happening to him. He sacrificed himself because he Loves you.

Everything you Love cost you. It's a sacrifice you do cause you want to. You Love your kid But your kids are going to cost you. That doesn't matter, It's a sacrifice you do because you want to.

What was the sacrifice in Marrying a wealthy guy for his Money? There is none. Are you worried about where he is going to go and what he is going to do? The honest answer is no.

Getting into a relationship for capital gain is not Love. The whore does it for money, not Love.

[Opinion Owner]

@Quigly

people marry for all sorts of reasons. there isn't a rule about only 1 reason to marry.

[Quigly]

They teach this in school. Marriage is not a Religious Institution. It's education, not Bitterness or jealousy or being jaded. Just because you hate reality doesn't mean anything else other than you hate reality.

@Opinion Owner

[Quigly]

@Opinion Owner

There is more than one reason to Marry
You can Marry to have a Kid
You can Marry to take care of someone less fortunate in Sickness.
Marriage is not a requirement, You can also live life outside of Marriage.

Marriage for the sole purpose of money and a place to live is called Prostitution.

[DishLady]

in my opinion dating is the worse bc of the uncertainty of the other person. I like being single (hanging out with friends from time to time) and I did like being in a relationship as well.

[Sam1133]

Dish you're such a sweetheart 😘

[DishLady]

Thanks Sam. ☀️

[Sam1133]

Dish you single? 😘

[DishLady]

Yeah.

[Sam1133]

Aw sad to know that such loveable sweetheart is single..😘😘
Dish you deserve to be loved ❤️

[DishLady]

🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[Sam1133]

Sweetheart I hold your hand...
Come love lets spend sometimes alone. 😘❤️

[DishLady]

Lol.

[Sam1133]

Lol - lips on lips?
Aw dish ohk come i want to love you tonight come please. 😘💋

[Vneila21]

@Sam1133
Nuh uh, let's not get too carried away on this Online platform now. If you're confident about getting a girl, why would you think online is the best place to practice?

[Likes2drive]

Single is the easiest by far as long as you know how to do everything on your own, dating can be quite frustrating and an exhausting plus expensive, marriage isn’t really that easy because you always have to think about the other person when you make a decision and you can’t just do things whenever you want. I’ve experienced all three and being single is very peaceful and no stress, but it’s lonely.

[WonderingManII]

The answer depends on the couple. If the couple is getting along they can help each other get through things. When you are single, it is just you trying to make things work for you.

[Simslover92]

While single life is the easiest, it's not the most rewarding experience. Being in a relationship or married is far more rewarding especially once kids are involved in the marriage.

[Quigly]

Freedom is very rewarding, That's something you don't get in Marriage. Especially when kids are involved and that goes double when they aren't your kids.

[Simslover92]

I said it's not the most rewarding experience. Having children is very rewarding. Seeing them grow up and be something great is a wonderful experience and achievement.

[maddog998]

It's basically all the same...
Single you get lonely, dating you get lonely and married you get lonely... I got so used to doing shit myself when single or dating. Never had someone split the bills/help me around the yard. Better off single until you find the right one. First date - split the bill !

[Nikki1989]

I love being married. Every day I spend with my husband is a blessing.

[sawno]

Being in a healthy relationship for me is much easier. Finding someone I am that compatible with is incredibly hard for some reason. The qualities I seek in someone is hard to find.

[dudeinohio]

Being single is easier. Relationships require work.

[Anonymous]

Depends on what's easier for you... if you don't want to worry about what people think about you, it's easier for you to be single.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Single is better but only to those who can withstand it.

[UrLoveMocha]

Single life. Definitely. So much freedom and time.

[PeterLegg91]

You have freedom when your single

[Paige90]

Single

[Jmmmfi4]

I wouldn't know