Met a man instant chemistry no date planned?

[Unrealiseddream]

Met man in a club. Instant chemistry. We was super into eachother. Swapped numbers. Talked daily. He met with me we slept together. Chemistry remained high and he would call me daily. Then suddenly the morning calls became lunch time calls then those became evening calls. He was initially very vocal about feelings now he doesn't share as much. He also hasn't secured a third meet. But he calls every single day. Whether for 5 minutes or 15 he calls. I've given him my availability. Why would he be investing time to keep the connection if he's not interested? He has become my penpal 😭😭what do I do?

[bowenw]

He may be a player. Now that you have slept together he could be working on sleeping with other women while keeping you in reserve.

[Unrealiseddream]

Great insight and yes I am likely in rotation. Makes sense. I refuse to sit on any the bench for anyone. I'm looking for a new team.

[bowenw]

That is just a guess on my part, but if a guy is truly interested, he doesn't behave the way you are describing.

[Unrealiseddream]

Very truye great jbsyfgt

[RHK36]

A girl that puts out that quickly isn't serious, literally how can you be taken seriously. Women mistake lust for love. Find a new guy if you want something real and don't put out so easily before learning the man you are seeing.

[beenherebefore]

He must be busy. Next time he calls ask him when his available for you both to meet.