What does it mean if a woman pays the entire bill on a date?

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In Türkiye, if we girls don't like a guy on a date, we offer to pay the bill. If we don't offer to pay, it means we like him. Yes, the guy usually pays the bill on the first date, but if we don't like him, we pay the whole bill (Also, paying the bill doesn't make us greedy, nor does it make you rich; this is my response to the men who are just talking nonsense here.)

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

This is genius l o l Any girl that I have ever asked out. I always buy because that's just who I am If a girl insists on paying, I always say, why don't you just leave the tip? I asked you out , so i'm buying everything But your idea is one of the best ideas I've ever heard, because that way guys get the hint.
 And if he knows that she doesn't like him.
 Well, he might be gentler on her. I've seen questions on here about guys and girls going in halves or guys just very rudely wanting the girl to pay her half, I think it's so stupid. It's unreal. That's why I have a job that's why I work. That's why I can take out girls and not worry about it Sometimes I feel that most guys that are wanting the girl to pay her half is because they don't even have a job they can't afford to take her out anyway. So what are they doing taking her out If a girl didn't like me, I'm still gonna pay because I asked her to go out, but at the same time, I love your idea. It just makes it easier on people that are cheap

Telekinetic-Potato · Accepted Answer

I would think something is very wrong haha. That's like a power move but in a way that feels dismissive.  I'm not sure I'd talk to her after 😂 like you have no moves after that.

Summeroflove · Answer

It’s usually the opposite…. Nukber one I feel bad if a woman pays and I don’t expect it. But I do appreciate it especially when it can happen if you use the bathroom and come back and she’s gotten the waiter or waitress… and paid it.

But generally speaking. A woman isn’t going to do that for a dude she doesn’t genuinely like. It’s a red flag if a woman will only go on a date especially a first one somewhere that costs money.

Account · Answer

To me?
It is completely irrelevant regarding whether I am into the person or not.
It just feels nice to treat other people.
It could be for family, friends or romantic interests. It is just a nice thing to do.

AviatorTom · Answer

In the US, I'm pretty sure most guys would have no problem if she pays the entire bill. He'll get the next one.

Tarifa · Answer

This gives out a very clear sign. I would encourage this. My dating days are long gone now, but it would have made my life easier if clear signs had been sent out on a first date. You can tell if the spark and the attraction is there, but in absence of that, I was never sure if I could expect anything.

_Troian_ · Answer

I am Turkish aswell and there is no such thing like she is talking about, I had some dates which she insisted on paying for her own bill and I led her. Later by night we spent it together, that just depends on the person and their mentality. I wouldn’t let a woman pay for entire bill but if she wants to pay for her own then sure.

HighValue · Answer

Neither person should pay for the other at first. Each person should pay their own way and stop using people for a free meal or free entertainment.

NathanDavis · Answer

it means she invited me and said she would cover it... and because money doesn't mean shit to me like that, I didn't fixate on it

beenherebefore · Answer

Maybe she wants to make it clear she's not after the guy's money.

Bricealan · Answer

@red-lipstick-girl If the woman pays the bill, she has no 'obligation' to let the guy get in her pants afterward.

RandomGirl42 · Answer

If I'm paying it means he ain't getting much 'cuz I'm broke! 🤣

RavVid · Answer

That sounds kinda good but I think paying your half would be more polite. From my view.

exitseven · Answer

It never happened to me nd it never happened to anyone I know so I have no clue.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Well in this brain, I went for Dutch until figuring out eventually that the best dates are absolutely free of charge!

Pohjolan · Answer

Why would you give preferential treatment to the guy you don't like compared to the one you do? What else are you doing with the date you liked more to compensate for this?

Berethor · Answer

It means that she is not acting like a gold digger, a woman should pay her half always.

NerdGuy89 · Answer

It means she’s actually participating in dating and, unlike feminists, understands equality.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah I would assume she isn't interested if she insisted on paying. At least during the early stages of dating.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

You pay if you DON'T like the guy? That's so weird to me

DarKnight36 · Answer

I always pay the bill, but sometimes the other person said, "Wait, I'll pay," and I've taken that woman into my heart.

MrChinaski · Answer

Interesting culture. How do you stop this being exploited for free meals? I would.

AgentG111 · Answer

It's nice and she's either trying to assert dominance or prove she doesn't need a man to take care of her and showing she has her own money

Sal_Monella · Answer

It may mean that she picked the venue that was very expensive and did not want that to get in the way with starting a new relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

It means she's the man and you're her bitch so you better put out for her cause that meal ain't free especially if she's keeping your belly full

queenofcardio · Answer

I wouldn't pay for him if I don't like him

NoDecision · Answer

Means she is desperate for a 2nd date.

FreyaRed · Answer

It means to he can f... off

Anonymous · Answer

It means she's rich, confident, and determined.

WhitneySnow · Answer

That’s an interesting custom

MikeMcMansion · Answer

She wants you to leave.

Jerre · Answer

I definitely would pay the bill

FenixG45 · Answer

I don't believe this is true in other countries.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

She's got a lot more money than I do, right now!!

Mcluven101 · Answer

Its means I'm in a dream and I need to wake up.

Anonymous · Answer

Best solution… no one pays

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

She wants your #boyjoy !!!

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