Do ya believe that when people struggle with dating, its usually for a negative reason, or just bad timing/luck?

[Anonymous]

Usually for a reason

Bad timing/luck

[MontBlanc]

Mostly bad timing and mismatched circumstances, not a “negative” reason.

Struggling with dating rarely means something is wrong with you , it usually means:

• You haven’t met the right person yet
• Life schedules, priorities, or environment aren’t aligned
• Growth or self discovery is still happening

Luck, timing, and patience matter more than character flaws.

[Abbycado]

It can be either. There is never a one answer fits all.

[slatyb]

Luck can be changed, but most of the men here complaining about their lack of success blame externalities instead of trying to figure out how to make themselves more attractive.

[Anonymous]

Both bad luck and bad timing.
I tell myself often "it's not my fault" - it just "is what it is" is the trendy saying nowadays 😅🫠

[Shrimpenjoyer]

All women who would look down on you for this are a bunch of cunts.

[Nikki1989]

You can only use the "bad luck" excuse so many times.

[Anonymous]

It depends what they're having trouble with most specifically.

I think the largest problem is most people don't know who they are, or what they want. I mean, they may know they want a relationship. But that's about all they know.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Usually bad luck.

I'm waiting for all the negative women here who will say otherwise so I can scold their asses.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Or they just suck at it. (present company included)

[queenofcardio]

A mixture of both reasons

[exitseven]

it is usually bad timing or bad luck.

[In_Trance]

I think in 100% of the cases it's their own fault