Is a 12:30am missed WhatsApp call after a first date a red flag?

[Anonymous]

After he said “thanks for a nice evening, good luck with your 9am meeting” and you respond positively with “thanks :) yeah I’m going to pretty much go straight to bed” at 10pm.

Yes it’s a red flag

No he might have accidentally dialled

[AviatorTom]

Are you concerned you gave him a red flag for not answering the call, or you consider it a red flag that he called so late when he knew you were going to bed?

Either way, don't make any rash judgments. See what the second date brings...

[Cyfris]

I'm going to say hopefully he dropped his phone on his face trying to relive a moment or message from earlier.. When you ask him you will have to let us know.

[Alex757]

Haha

[KBird]

If it was just one missed call, I wouldn't think anything of it. If its paired with many other missed calls, and/or texts, then yes. But one call I wouldn't worry about.

[Anonymous]

This is sad.

The future is totally screwed.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I don't see how you could see that as a red flag. They only called once. Even if they called to talk what's the big deal it means they like you.

[MikeTheBartender]

More context, you're a dude, this is a gay date?

[jshm2]

No. But a text back of "sorry to miss your call" should smooth over things.

[MikeMcMansion]

What if she’s in a spaceship and being kidnapped by trans aliens from the ancient past? Bro, selfish

[Starlux]

Nothing to worry about. One missed call can be followed up.

[Alex757]

Maybe he was checking to see that you arrived home safely

[Kingofkings1992]

Christ dude. Are you really between 30-35 and asking this? You sound like a 15 year old.

[rosemilk]

um no. ask them about it.

[Zionne]

that's an accident for sure

[Anonymous]

I’m confused. Which one are you?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh you’re the person who got the call. No, I do t think it’s a red flag. Probably just an accident.

[LC75LC71]

Using WhatsApp is a red flag..