If someone likes you first and you start liking them too, how do you know it’s a green light?

[ElenaSeluna]

do you for example ask mutual friends about them?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I don't really notice being appreciated if I'm not appreciating her in return. So, to me, it's a mutual and constant feedback loop building up. I don't know other ways to proceed, at least I don't know anymore how to proceed differently. I don't even want it, it works finely as it is for me.

So opportunities to look at green lights are many.

Asking mutual friends about? No, it wouldn't even occur to me lol

[Still-alive]

I need the big three: Empathetic, communication, sense of humor. all of which i can figure out through just talking to them.

if i get all those i go for it.

[ElenaSeluna]

Some people are very good at pretending at the beginning and especially if they like you

[Still-alive]

yup so that why i give new relationships at least 90 days be for i fully go all in emotionally. If any masks were up they'll slip off eventually. i've only gotten better at detecting that stuff over time too lol

[ElenaSeluna]

3 months is a good amount of time to know someone 👍🏻

[Still-alive]

yup i got that tip online somewhere. seems to work well lol

[ElenaSeluna]

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[queenofcardio]

It's a green light if he's single and I know he likes me. I'll make my move if I feel the same. Sometimes you just know based on your connection with them.

[Still-alive]

[queenofcardio]

[ElenaSeluna]

[queenofcardio]

giphy.com/.../theoffice-the-office-tv-michaels-birthday-IwAZ6dvvvaTtdI8SD5

[Nikki1989]

Trust your gut feeling and go with the flow.

[ElenaSeluna]

I like that 😊

[ohsheeT]

When someone is behind you honking there horn yelling move it lady lol

[ohsheeT]

That's when you need to be able to read guys you need to be able to pick up on what they say what they don't say what they do how they treat people and you have to understand for it to be right it takes both people present it just doesn't poof happen tada. We all really would like it to but that day that we say okay that's that day there's no guarantee tomorrow or the next day or the next day or the next day but if you know who that person is and what they're all about you have a general clue on the outcome of the next few days months years

When I get into a relationship and there comes a point in time where I really like this person I have to stop and ask myself a bunch of questions

And at the end of the questions the last question I asked myself is somewhere down the road if something was to happen not what I did that something that she did am I ready for that pain can I just walk away and start again and the answer has to be yes because that's the only answer you can have there's no guarantees on anything for any set days nothing so you have to make it they have to make it work and if neither one can do that or if one drops the ball it's time to make another choice

[AviatorTom]

You NEVER KNOW for sure it's a green light. Trust your gut. It's right much more than it's wrong.

[Alex-Snow]

I give it some time, have fun and then ask if they want to take the friendship to another level. What has worked for you and your boyfriends?

[ElenaSeluna]

Anything possible

[Tarifa]

If his friends know a lot of things about you before you are even introduced to them, then you know he's been talking about you. That's as green as it will get.

[Jerre]

When you kiss and its tongue vs tongue. It’s almost a green light to go further

[ElenaSeluna]

That might happen in the very advanced stages not at the beginning 😆

[Jerre]

@ElenaSeluna Thank you for the Like

[exitseven]

The short answer is thet you don't. They may have changed their minds.

[glennos89]

Just try to get to know eachother some more to see if it works out between both of you

[bowenw]

I've never asked for anyone else's opinion. I just know know.

[DarKnight36]

After she got hit by that arrow, I get excited and treat her very warmly whenever I see her.

[AgentG111]

Talk all your friends if things are going smoothly then keep going.

[Anonymous]

I never knew that, that's probably one of many reasons why I was actually never in a relationship.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Just got with it don't over think it just let things take a natural progression

[jahaims]

By communicating with them

[slatyb]

I ask them out.

[ZameerAnsari91]

I don't know 😞