Is there a way to win someone by showering love?

[Anonymous]

In my experience that never worked for me.
But a lot of people have different experiences.
I think I am forcing love, which is wrong on so many levels.
That happens cause I am desperate 😭.
When I realise these things I am already too late.
I wish I was someone else or more attractive.

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2 mo

Lol both women says it can, all men says it's not possible 😂

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1 mo

I agree with guys cause its just a big gap between her double standards and me. For her ' looks, height weight matters a lot'I don't have any of it also I am not rich enough to lure her with gifts,. This question has been answered to. Majority wins..

[jennifer_bloom]

You get attraction through connection and connection can be built through mutual experiences, mutual affection, or intellectual interest and reciprocation in their personal lives. One thing is, women need to feel highly respected. If you do not respect her, she will not respect you either, and no amount of money or time will change that. The other thing is, women are attracted to emotional flexibility, if you never respond or react emotionally to anything she says, she will not be attracted to you.

[Nikki1989]

It has to be genuine. Most women can spot fakeness from a mile away.

[Asker]

Actually in my personal experience women normally go for the fake ones more.

[Asker]

Many of my female friends, are dating a playboy.

[Asker]

Sorry I have to with guys it's not possible even if it's a genuine, forever kind of thing.
Looks matter to her too much

[William7489]

No, it usually really never works unless you’re showering somebody with a whole lot of money. And to be quite honest, even that we’ll get old after a while. And in my personal experience, you just can’t appear to eager to please somebody. It’s almost like a turn off to them.

[Anonymous]

there's a word for this lol, and it's not a good habit to form

[Summeroflove]

You can’t force a person to love you and why would you even want to….. Now some people may see that and use someone but it’s not a genuine attraction

[jahaims]

That isn't a healthy way to start a relationship

[Anonymous]

Nope.