What are the biggest red flags to watch for in a guy?

[Johnmitch]

[SueShe]

Nobody in their right mind is ever going to say things that might reduce their chances in dating, at least not in the first 10 or so dates.

Who will tell the date that he/she has a criminal record? Who will confess that they are junkies? Who is going to ruin their chances to get into the pants of the date by saying that have addictions? Nobody of course.

All those plus a number of lies about themselves are all red flags, some darker and some lighter in color but always a red flag nonetheless.

People that have to lie to try to be intimate with the date are also all red flags. Saying that they are 6'3'' when they are actually 5'7'' or that they have a higher education degree when they did not finish school are equally red flags.

[Nikki1989]

He needs a positive personality; kindness and compassion; respect; intelligence; a sense of humour; honesty and integrity; good communication skills; and shared interests and values. If he fails to meet these fundamental relationship criteria, it raises an immediate concern.

[CriminallyInsane]

Lying mostly. I can accept most things if I can trust them. Not everyone's a choir boy.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Doesn't respect boundaries from the get go

[In_Trance]

That depends what you think is attractive in a guy

[Zionne]

immaturity