Is it weird to crush on a guy who’s almost a year younger than me?

[Anonymous]

Okay so… I randomly came across this guy online and I honestly think he’s really cute like, exactly my type. The thing that’s lowkey making me hesitate is that he’s almost a year younger than me, and I don’t know if that’s weird or if he’d even care about the age difference. We’ve never talked or met or anything, but I kinda have a crush on him now 😭 do you think he’d even be okay with the age thing too?

[Summeroflove]

That’s not weird. Are you crushing on him over his age or because you really like him? Go for it. It would be weird if you overly fetishized his age. But you aren’t. You like him because he’s your type. You’re holding yourself back you never know if it will work or not if you don’t try.

And I would assume he would be okay with it. Try it….. if he gets weird about it then you’ll know. But a real relationship is based on building a bond. It’s not like he’s an underage boy lol. That would be odd.

[HawkPerception]

Why would that be weird? There's tons of couples with 10 year or more age gaps in the world. It's actually pretty normal. Stop overthinking it. The younger you are, the more you tend to think age matters. It doesn't. Most girls would date Thor if he looked like the movies portrayed even if he's thousands of years old. Same with guys if the girl is someone like Wonderwoman.

Age. Doesn't. Matter.

Unless we're talking about prepubescent kids. Then yes... it does.

[jazzy34]

No. I once had a crush on guy that was two years younger than me. He was intelligent and mature. That’s what attracted me to him. 😊

[Anonymous]

No, one year is barely noticeable as long as he's mature for his age

[Asker]

he will turn 18 this September but i turned 18 last December

[ChasingSophie]

A year younger? That's genuinely the thing giving you pause? I've dated people with way more alarming differences than eleven months and I promise that was never once the problem.

[msc545]

Age does not matter. The heart wants what it wants. Enjoy your crush, and for you, I hope for a good outcome as well.

[Alex-Snow]

One year is not much at all. Some guys are mature for their age. How old is he actually? I say go for it,. Maybe ask him out and see how it goes. Message me if you want to chat about it.

[capriVib]

There’s no rule saying we have to always fall for someone older.

[Staximus]

The age difference is not even an age difference. How can you have a crush on somebody you’ve never talked to and don’t even know? You’re just being stupid.

[Anonymous]

Totally fine. He won’t care either. Do you rub off to his pic or is it more like a romantic crush? Or both? Either way it’s cool. A year is no big deal.

[EveryDayIsPretzelDay]

It's not weird. Most girls prefer older, but liking a guy who's a few months younger than you is very far from weird.

[Anonymous]

Why would a one year difference either way matter that much?

[Thecubs22]

No. I wouldn't say the age gap would matter

[DonaldDarko]

No thats basically the same age as you.

[AngryCarl3]

Um, how old are you, like 10?

[Asker]

i turned 18 last dec he turns 18 this September. and by the way in our country men are hard to understand so im so confused

[bubblydoubles]

It’s not weird at all

[dudeinohio]

That year age gap is nothing at all. Go for it!

[blackeagle007]

He’s a year younger. Who cares

[ZameerAnsari91]

No, its not a bad thing at all.

[Iron_Man]

Yes it is

[oldman26]

He could be the one

[Asker]

stop feeding into my delusionnss aah

[beefcakebradybatson]

NO !!!