What is the worst rejection you've ever gotten from someone you've asked out?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Smashing doozy welcome back long time no see

All rejections are the same I can't put one over another one the moment it happened I walk away my face beat red and I'm talking to myself saying fuck fuck fuck

I carry on for about an hour And then I realize Why Embarrassed Because that's while it entails really

There's a good reason there's a real reason so quit making it up in my head and Let It Go one day you will find out the answer and in many cases I have but rejections rejection

And you have to stop and think about it the people that you have rejected it wasn't anything bad probably I know for me it wasn't it's just because I wasn't into that person and that's it it's not a big deal it just wasn't meant to be that's all and that's okay if it's that way

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

I've never really had an over the top asshole reaction any woman. Most have been very nice and diplomatic in their efforts to tell me "No chance buddy, take a hike". 🤣 I can't really ask for more than a polite, no thank you.

Maybe the "worst response" I've ever experienced is when a woman is visibly panicked. Like the deer in the headlights response. Freezes up. Visibly rattled. Doesn't know how to respond. I've always considered those responses to be the problem of that particular individual. And I'm actually grateful that she showed me her social dysfunction up front. I'm looking for the exit myself at that point and will defuse the situation quickly before I walk away as fast as my feet will carry me to safety.

jazzy34 · Accepted Answer

So, this was back in high school. I had a huge crush on a popular boy in my grade (we were juniors). He was always nice to me the whole time I had a crush on him (eight months). Long story short, not only did he not like me, he would make fun of me to his friends behind my back. It was an embarrassing disaster.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

i don't think i've ever had to ask a guy out.

but there's a fellow i've tried to reconcile with and I'll ask him to sit for a convo that he keeps hedging, though it's clear to everyone that he's crazy about me. He is apparently always talking about me. (who knows what's going on there.)

ArrowheadSW · Answer

The worst rejection I got was from a young lady in college who I had no intention of asking out. I thought she and i were friends (lived in the same dorm), and I guess she felt the need to reject me before I got to the point of asking her out. She was mean and pointed out to me things that she didn't like about me. It's like, where did all of this come from? I ran into her a year and a half later and she was nice to me and had an apologetic tone to what she was saying. Maybe she was going through something "mental" at the time in her life that she was toxic?

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

As for my success rate it has always been higher than my rejection rate & when it comes to rejection it hasn’t happen a lot in my life. As for me when someone catches my attention, they catch my attention & in life I always say if you never try you will never know & as for me I rather try & fail rather than not try at all.

As for rejection I look at it in a different way. I look at rejection like the person is doing me a favor & subconsciously they know they aren’t good enough for me.

A married woman asked me out recently & I did decline the offer, I don’t roll that way.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Said yes, made fun of me behind my back long enough for it to turn into a whole thing then used someone else to tell me they were too embarrassed to say no to my face... Even though she had my number.

Was kind of a bummer. But I figured maybe she was insecure that we were in middle school and the girl I was friends with had gigantic tits. Looking back maybe she knew that girl was into me. 😬

That's the girl I saw years later in the dirty wife beater with the lizard on her shoulder if anyone saw me tell that story before 😂

exitseven · Answer

Where I went to school there was a girl that I met that I really liked. After I worked up the courage I finally asked her out. It happened to be spring weekend and she told me that she would be around for the whole weekend. I saw this as a good sign. However I tried to find her on campus and had no luck. It was Saturday night and I was driving to a nearby club with a couple of friends. There were a couple of kids hitchhiking that we picked up. They were not students but one was the cousin of the girl I was looking for and he was meeting her at the club we were going to. I figured she would be glad that I brought her cousin. Instead she totally blew me off.

Still-alive · Answer

This was a person I worked with when i was like 21 or so. We had all gotten the phone numbers of our coworkers. I was friends with this girl there but starting to like. I wrote her a letter basically confessing my for her and I hadn’t received a response yet. Maybe like two days after i was at a concert and drinking a bit when i suddenly had the bright idea of texting her. So all i said was ‘hey its me [insert name here] how are you? ‘ and she replies back with ‘erase my number! I don’t want you to have it!’

yeahhh that one hurt. Then i had to go into work with her for another year lol. Was awkward af. She got with another dude and eventually we became friends again….

but that still sticks out for me. I guess this wasn’t an asking out.. well the letter was but still a rejection, a very harsh one.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I went out with some girl and we had a nice time so, the time I wanted to go out with her, I called her up and she knew it was me but pretended I was some guy named, Frank, and she started belittling me over the phone as if I wasn't the one she was saying this shit to!

Nik1hil · Answer

I just realised..

I am going to be 30 yr old.. and I never Asked anyone out!.

I mean I have asked my friends to "Let's go out and hang"..

But I have never asked a Girl Romantically to go out!.. hmmm... How Amusing..15 yr old me wouldn't believe it if I told this to him!..

NathanDavis · Answer

not really my style to ask someone out... especially when they don't even know me enough

so, nope... the usual is more like me getting yelled at or looked at what frustration, lol..."when are you going to take me out ffs..."

CriminallyInsane · Answer

I only asked one guy myself because he was too tongue-tied and nervous to do it and 3 years later... I wish he had rejected me so I didn't just waste all that time with him lol

andreasderjuengere · Answer

After over a year of admiring her, I finally dared to speak.
She thought that I make fun of her.
It's now 44 years later, and I still think that I'd have been a perfect partner/husband to her.
Well... shit happens.

loveslongnails · Answer

This girl accepted a date from me and afterwards said it was because she felt sorry for me. I said "I don't need or want your sympathy", and I walked away.

bobalife · Answer

I’ve only asked one guy out. It was cute and fun. I’ve never asked a girl out…

ThaCuriousGuy007 · Answer

I was never into you but your mate, so just piss off and leave me along, something like that I think

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

NathanDavis' answer. Caution is cautiously cautious.

queenofcardio · Answer

I can't remember.  I rarely ask out men.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have never been rejected, but I have always chosen my dates very wisely.

Ironco · Answer

I've never been rejected to my face, just the old get her number and it was a fake. But shit happens...

Tomislav7 · Answer

Friend in Hs told a girl that I liked her, according to him her response was 'I have standards'

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

The worst was when I was 15 she was really rude about it but ten yes later I got even when that same girl who was now a woman asked me out I was just as rude

Alex-Snow · Answer

Nothing too bad. The most disappointing was " Thanks but I'm already seeing someone"

AngryCarl3 · Answer

I've never had anything worse than a simple no.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

"Only a desperate girl would fuck your uncircumcised dick!"

msc545 · Answer

For men in the U. S., you need to be at least 6 ft 2, extremely good looking, preferably very rich. I am None of those things. I don't bother.

Anonymous · Answer

I've never asked anyone out because it's illegal here

LiamJHayden · Answer

Unsure. I am always kind in my approach, and have not really had an over-the-top rejection.

Staximus · Answer

I only ask out girls who I know will say yes but I have been stood up a couple times

Anonymous · Answer

She just said "seriously? fuck off".

Anonymous · Answer

On here wasted lot of time searching right babe for me 😶

petitedollbabee · Answer

I don’t think I’ve been rejected before 😬

Marissa4 · Answer

She laughed in my face.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Never asked anyone out to be rejected hehe

Sweetdreams1950 · Answer

I’ve never asked her out.

Jay-_- · Answer

I've never asked anyone out.

Sammy098 · Answer

That hasn't happened yet

Anonymous · Answer

I never asked anyone out, I'm too shy.

rapfan107 · Answer

Nah I sorry I don't like guys like you

Zionne · Answer

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