Did I ruin my chances by admitting I have no confidence to her?

[Anonymous]

I always though honesty is the best policy but i was completely honest with her on everything not a single lie. I think i screwed up my chances for good and know i have been crying and extremely depressed it feel like im not good enough.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for honesty it’s the best policy within reason but on the other side of things it can really backfire. Many moon ago a lovely lady asked me if she looked fat & I said yes well honesty was not the best policy in that case. She never talked to me again.

As for you my friend just be yourself & stop making a mountain out of a molehill & over analyzing things. Grow a set, put your big box boxers on & stop being a crying bitch & be a man. The next time you run into her or someone else say one of the following.

1. If Covid doesn’t take you out can I?

2. If the Hantavirus doesn’t take you out can I?

Bro you have balls in your pants, use them.

[Anonymous]

Honesty IS the best policy. But that doesn't mean you need to share everything with a woman.

If she is a good woman, you hurt your image with her, you didn't KILL your chances. But if you did KILL your chances be THANKFUL you did. Because she is not the woman for you. I promise you this. It's very hard to determine a woman that really wants you.

But don't EVER tell a woman you're not confident again. I don't care who it is. It's OK to feel that way, it's never OK to say it. If you're married to a woman 30 years. It MIGHT be ok, but I still wouldn't advise it then. Never ever fully let a woman know what's going through your head. The less you say is always better.

[Opinion Owner]

"Deter" not "determine"

[CriminallyInsane]

Did she say something to make you think that or are you just being hysterical for no reason?

[NathanDavis]

you were honest... and so was she

now they two of you are better because of that

honesty is the best policy... but that does not mean you're entitled to all you want just because you want it...

[CriminallyInsane]

"that does not mean you're entitled to all you want just because you want it..."

"wanting it should be enough"

-quotes from the same person lol

[NathanDavis]

@CriminallyInsane was that Shakespeare... or Voltaire

[CriminallyInsane]

Jonathan something I think

[NathanDavis]

@CriminallyInsane Jonathan Swift?

[CriminallyInsane]

I just know it's NotDavis, could be literally anything else

[NathanDavis]

@CriminallyInsane nondiary

[Cleatchaser1]

@CriminallyInsane I sense a little sarcasm there in those quotes girl 🤔

[Cleatchaser1]

Nevermind, she's gone

[queenofcardio]

You might still have a chance