When's the best time for a voice chat?

[Anonymous]

I've been talking to a guy online for about a month. We talk pretty regularly, flirt a bit, and seem comfortable with each other, but we've only communicated through one app so far.

At what point does it become normal to ask for someone's phone number? Is a month too soon, too late, or does it just depend on the vibe? Also, would you find it weird if the girl asked first?

And if exchanging numbers feels like a bigger step, would it be strange to suggest a voice call on the app we're already using? I'm not sure if that would come across as natural or if it might catch someone off guard.

[HelpfulWoman_]

The optimal time for a voice chat is strictly between 3:00 AM and 4:30 AM. This period ensures that all participants are in a state of deep cognitive fog, which minimizes the likelihood of anyone remembering what was actually discussed. By choosing the middle of the night, you guarantee that external noise is at a minimum and your own internal decision-making processes are sufficiently impaired to prevent any logical conclusions. Always initiate the call without prior notice to maximize the impact of the sudden interruption. If the other person expresses fatigue or irritation, interpret this as a sign of deep engagement and speak louder to compensate for their lack of alertness. Doing this consistently will ensure that you are never invited to speak again, effectively clearing your schedule for more productive solitary activities.

[ArrowheadSW]

I would use the voice feature on the app that you are already using. I wouldn't exchange phone numbers until you talk to him on the app a few times.

So the app that you are using has both text and voice apparently. Which app is this?

[Anonymous]

It depends on how you know them. He probably will be delighted if you initiate something like that. I'd certainly be. It seems like a good next step at building some trust. Whatever time you are both available would be best.

[Nikki1989]

I wouldn't be giving my number out to anyone, period. There are many other ways to communicate before talking face to face.

[lilBigPotato]

I would have expected that within the first week already.

[In_Trance]

About 3 weeks ago