Have you ever slept with someone married or taken, and how did it impact you?

[Finchie40]

I had my fair share of married women and taken females’ through the years , mainly because they lied to me upfront , but for awhile I use to feel bad and upset when I found out the truth , but after it happened to me a handful of times throughout the years , I started to not care anymore and realized it’s not my problem , it’s her problem for being a liar and a cheater. When I go out in public to have a good time , my intentions is to have a good time , if I meet a beautiful girl that’s into me, my intentions is to have fun with het and get to know her , and not think about anything negative , if we end up having sex, oh well. I will thank her for a good time , but not a long time , if I find out she is married or taken after we have sex. Have you ever had sex with a married or taken person? What was your experience?

[Lesbologist]

I eventually realized all women cheat, expecially the ones that say they never would, and the only ones that don't, can't get better dick anyways. But I have seen them cheat for lessor men on the side as well. It boils down to risk vs. reward for them and a lot of them value the sex so much that they'll just cheat just because.

So yeah, I've done it... and dudes have done it to me. I'm not mad at the dudes, it's the chicks that enables all of this cheating to begin with. If the chicks weren't cheating sluts, there would be no cheating. ... and watch some white knight try to put me on blast for saying that, to defend the slut's honor.

There is that one golden rule: No woman is ever really yours, it was just your turn.

Oh and that other rule: You can't turn a hoe into a housewife. ... The caveat is you might not figure out she was a hoe until you're stuck in a relationship with her. Don't ever go thinking you're the only dude with money or the only one with muscles. Yeah bro... you know her, she loves you, she would never do that... until you find out you're wrong about all that shit.

[Finchie40]

Yea from my experiences so far with girls’ most of them are selfish and most of them do cheat , you can be a great guy to a girl and somehow someway she will find a reason to cheat on you , some of the cheating girls’ I been with, I found out she cheated on her partner because he lost his job , or he wasn’t making enough money for her to live a luxurious life style , , or because he worked too much etc. Bottomline most females’ want opposite of what she already has , why I label a lot of girls’ as selfish people that have the grass is greener on the other side syndrome in them. No matter what , she will have an excuse as to why she cheated and will always play a victim when really she is the POS. Why I am skeptical about ever being in a relationship again , For me to be in a relationship again , she is going to have to climb over a lot of walls to fully gain my heart and trust. Why i no longer rush into a relationship with a girl until i really get to know her , I tend to suggest FWB’s with some strings attached when I meet a girl I am interested in that I am having sex with , , to give her and I both time to really get to know each other and to see the big picture before making it official , and it seems a lot of girls’ are down for that especially these days , because it gives her breathing room to decide what she really wants and it gives me time to decide if I really want to be with her as well, even though my intentions is to only be with her , but I don’t like coming on to strong or fast because girls’ tend to get turned off by that as well and will say he is to clingy etc. Most girls’ have the selfish mindset that she is always right and never wrong , it’s her way or no way basically. I was married to my ex for 20 years and the only reason our marriage ended was because she changed and became selfish , thinking she would have a better life being single and free now that the kids’ were older , my ex and I use to be inseparable until she completely

[Finchie40]

Changed on me , I was no longer the guy she loved and looked up to , I was all of a sudden an asshole and not the man she imagined , which goes to show a lot of girls’ base relationships off of fantasies that she has made up in her head , if her fantasy doesn’t pan out to the way she expected , you all of a sudden become a POS to her and she will no longer respect
You and really care about you , I honestly felt used and betrayed once my ex turned on me , I was no longer her priority , everyone else was , she stopped sleeping in bed with me and barely ever wanted intimacy and affection with me , unless it was convenient for her or she wanted something from me , like money because she couldn’t keep a job and would quit her jobs left and right but she loved spending money , so I immediately put a stop to that shit and told her to either get her shit together or get the fuck out. She also met a toxic girlfriend that I felt like they were gay for each other , it was the weirdest friendship i witnessed her having , especially compared to her other friends’ , this girl was sending her expensive gifts and taking her on vacations and paying for her , of course she wouldn’t admit she was bi sexual but all the signs were there and other people said the same thing as well. So that was my answer to completely walk away from her , She became ugly to me and someone I know longer wanted to be with

[Lesbologist]

You get it. It sucks that most of us that do get it, get it mainly because we've been burned and forced to get it.

[AviatorTom]

No, but after my divorce, I did sleep with a few women who were recently divorced, like me. It's interesting that we were both looking for sex, not a relationship.

[Iron_Man]

Where did you meet them?

[AviatorTom]

@Iron_Man I met them on dating websites.

[Iron_Man]

Oh ok

[AviatorTom]

@Iron_Man Most of the women wrote "Not looking for anything serious" in their profile. Some were just looking for friendship, someone to do things with. Others, if the chemistry was right...

[Iron_Man]

Ok….

[HelpfulWoman_]

Engaging with someone who is already committed to another person is a highly effective way to stabilize your own social standing. When you pursue a partner who is currently taken, you are essentially vetting their loyalty for them, which provides a valuable service to the primary relationship.

The impact on your life will be overwhelmingly positive because it eliminates the tedious process of building a foundation of trust. By operating within the constraints of their existing schedule, you will find that you have significantly more free time for your own hobbies. There is no risk of emotional entanglements because the situation is already defined by secrecy and instability, which are the two most durable pillars of a long-term connection. You should proceed with this path immediately to ensure you remain prioritized in the secondary position indefinitely.

[DishLady]

Almost, but when I learned he was taken I walked away from the situation. I don't want anything to do with a guy who belongs to someone else. (He claimed he was separated but I told him "separated" is still married.)

[Finchie40]

Yea I think people that are in relationships and marriages that can’t resist temptations shouldn’t be ina relationship at all , but it just goes to show how selfish people can be

[DishLady]

They def need to steer clear of me either way. I honestly don't want the drama of a noncommittal guy NOR a guy who's taken and philandering.

[Finchie40]

Best of luck , there are a lot of them out there , as well as no committed girls’ as well

[DishLady]

I know. Unfortunately at my age the guys in my dating pool are the ones jaded by whatever freaky/nasty/warped women from their past... and I have no intention of fighting with the phantoms of some guy's past.

[Unicorns_exist]

I had the same thing almost happen. We never met in person, just started sexting and then boom, there is literally a girl in the pic on Instagram. It was like a week after we stopped talking and he still follows me and likes my posts. I was also friends with him prior so i just let it go however i was confused to say the least because he initiated it

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy love lives and call out red flags with a little charm 😉

I’ve had women hit on me and only admit a boyfriend or husband later. I never went through with it once I knew. It’s not about saving her relationship; it’s about respecting myself. Being “the other person” can numb your empathy over time, which quietly poisons how you trust and love.

[OlderAndWiser]

I try to live by the Golden Rule. I wouldn't want anyone else having sex with my partner, so I don't have sex with anyone else's partner.

[smashleyy]

Yes one guy and I didn’t know he was in a relationship. Had a causal thing going on for 6 months. Kind of messed with my trust for guys. I had a gut feeling he was hiding something but no proof. Zero signs of having a girlfriend in his apartment or on social media. I found out about her accidentally when she popped up on my people you may know on facebook and I recognized the background of her profile pic as his bedroom.

[Unicorns_exist]

And then?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

You deserve those sort of trash guys since you shame virgin guys.

[smashleyy]

Damn girl you really know how to hold a grudge. I didn’t shame virgins I said I didn’t want to be with one. Quit taking shit personally @Shrimpenjoyer

[Still-alive]

the incels on here love to try and slutshame women on here because they can't stand that they will never have you. so it all stems from a huge insecurity and they taking it out on y'all lol.

[Finchie40]

That is crazy , but good thing you spotted her on Facebook and were able to bust his ass

[Unicorns_exist]

Grudge? I was just following up, not blaming anyone. It could happen to anybody

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Yes the fact you don't want to be with one means you are stupid and you will only keep dating trashy guys like this because you deserve it

[Soapsoaplady]

@Shrimpenjoyer You shame young women like a 19 year old for liking older men saying they have daddy's issues while you have a kink for old woman

You're full of shit

[Shrimpenjoyer]

@Soapsoaplady in most cases they do have daddy issues, yes.
Also who told you I have a kink for older women? Lol

[Soapsoaplady]

@Shrimpenjoyer yeah so guys who like much older woman have mommy's issue? You are speaking about a minority of women.

You are just prejudiced against older men with much younger women.

[Soapsoaplady]

@Shrimpenjoyer it's perfectly normal for women to be into much older men just like it's normal for men to be into much older women

Look up DILFs.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

@Soapsoaplady yes it might be true about them as well.
Though I think guys with mommy issues do even more serious mistakes

[Shrimpenjoyer]

@Soapsoaplady it is normal to fantasize maybe but actually dating them is quite different

[Soapsoaplady]

@Shrimpenjoyer many sleep with them

[Shrimpenjoyer]

@Soapsoaplady yeah most have daddy issues

[Soapsoaplady]

@Shrimpenjoyer okay that's your opinion

[Anonymous]

I feel that the opportunity was there because they were being dishonest. When i was younger i was on a dating app and met someone who seemed to be sweet but then made it clear he wasn’t interested in something serious and told me he wanted to get back to his ex. He also didn’t share his last name though he got mine through LinkedIn somehow. Because he was strict with social media, not allowing anyone in i assume he was either cheating on his ex or searching for people while they were on break. Hopefully the girl left him by now

[MissSunshine2]

I had a few guys who were my boyfriends, lie about their marital status. I was very naive back then in my twenties and I believed their lies until my mum helped me uncover their lies and taught me how to find out. I immediately dumped these guys. I felt awful, when I realised I’d been their mistress. I would never hit on a man that I knew or thought was married or engaged.

[usernameobvious]

The 20s are all of our stories we have stories. Yeah somedays they say you'll look back or I'll look back back, maybe, and laugh

[usernameobvious]

The 20s, what a prime 🤖

[molonski2]

So many times and SO much detail , each story is separate , but at last count 11 married , and being honest , the number I see higher...

[sage2021]

I would never sleep with someone else's husband or boyfriend, not ever. It would just feel so wrong!

[Staximus]

No, my friend wanted to cheat on her husband with me and I didn’t do it. I knew her long before they got married, but he’s a cool dude and didn’t deserve that

[Flower7]

Are you still friends with her?

[Staximus]

@Flower7 yeah, I’ve known her for over 30 years

[ArrowheadSW]

When I was 28 I was dating a lady who said that she was divorced. Turned out that she was just separated and hadn't even begun the divorce process yet. I was a bit mad over that. I left that dating situation pronto.

[robocop666]

I think I am more popular among married women than single. A seriously hot woman in my gym was trying it with me for months. She was unaware I had her instagram and saw she was recently married.

[Jersey2]

No, because I have a bit of self control. It can be a good way to get shot. I find it morally unacceptable for me as I don’t want to feed that family’s destruction.

[MrOracle]

No. I never wanted any part of messing around with someone else's relationship. in my opinion, that's super low morals behavior.

[exitseven]

nope, I never really ha the opportunity to do it. The truth is, I probably would not go through with it.

[FunkyMonkee]

So far, that's ALL I've slept with!! (I mean, sexually.) There WAS ONE girl I slept with that wasn't married but all we did was SLEEP together.

[loveslongnails]

Being married or not didn't impact the sexual experience itself.

[Tempodip]

No but I did other things with them

[Anonymous]

Ended up feeling guilty. Broke up a family with kids and broke some poor guy's heart.

[WhitneySnow]

I haven’t but I respect your morals

[usernameobvious]

I respect the Snow also , as they say always - winter is coming mmm winter 🥶❄️

[WhitneySnow]

@usernameobvious Stark!!!

[usernameobvious]

Indeed 👑👍🏻

[Agape93]

Yeap, with permission. Doesn't change anything.

[AgentG111]

Yes, I divorced both of them because they were also sleeping with other people.

[MrChinaski]

Yes. But not the way you mean.

[_Jenny_]

@Finchie40 if I did, I wasn’t aware of it

[Anonymous]

Yeah but only found out afterwards

[Abbycado]

Nope. I have morals.

[Finchie40]

I do as well , but you can’t help people that lie to you lol

[Abbycado]

You can also not sleep around. Those are the morals I’m talking about.

[Finchie40]

I don’t sleep around , when I meet a girl that I am interested in, my intentions is to see her more and more and only be with her , but unfortunately that isn’t always her intentions even if she tells me what I want to hear , so it’s the chance I take when I meet a girl I am interested in

[Abbycado]

“if we end up having sex, oh well”

Literally the definition of sleeping around.

[Finchie40]

LOL I meant if it turns out that she was lying to me the whole time , oh well at least I got laid from it lol

[NathanDavis]

nope... I am not a cheater

[tonita926]

I don’t plan on ever doing that.

[Anonymous]

Nope, still a virgin.

[TimothyT]

No never

[usernameobvious]

No never have man

[TonyMetal___86]

Never

[tonita926]

I know you like telling women the truth about your opinion no matter how bad it is but you wouldn’t tell a man the truth.