How often do you want to talk…?

[Anonymous]

To a person you have a fondness for? If you are a guy, do you sometimes wait a few days to connect or do you want to talk everyday? (Talk meaning message, text, email, etc)

[Chandelier8]

I'm not a guy but sometimes I get busy and don't respond.. 2 days maximum, if I'm serious about him. If I guy gets busy, for a long time, I just lose interest.

[Chandelier8]

If a* aaaaaa typos are so annoying.

[boggboss]

Daily from when me and finance first starting talking we have spoken daily lol

[boggboss]

Oh shit I didn't mean for this to be a reply to you sorry 😅

[Chandelier8]

@boggboss No worries. 😂 Congrats on your engagement!

[boggboss]

Ty 👍🏽

[Fuentes]

2 days will get you the block list lkl

[Chandelier8]

@Fuentes Why do I feel that wouldn't be a bad thing?

[Fuentes]

@chandelier8 I don't know most girls end up in my Block list for playing games like that. But that's me generally speaking I woulda discarded u anyway cause I wouldn't take u srs from the gate but that's me. I'm talking in guys who have a back bone it's a good esy to end up in their block list too.

[Fuentes]

Way**

[Chandelier8]

@Fuentes Why do you think it's playing games and not just being busy? "Discarding"? Why do you treat people disrespectfully like that? Is that the way you want to be treated?

[Fuentes]

Lol cause chick's cum n go, and busy doing what? Are u Military, Law Enforcement, Firefighter, EMS, RN what are you doing that's so busy you can't respond in 2 days, but tou can respond to a total stranger like me fast af on a forum lol that's called playing bro hahahaha

[Chandelier8]

@Fuentes I guess you missed the "maximum" part but you can go look at what I usually do as I commented under sawno about that. I could be in the hospital, getting surgery, starting a new job and exhausted. The possibilities are endless and the world doesn't revolve around. Nor would I care how someone like you treats women, I would never be stupid enough to get involved with a guy like you.

[Chandelier8]

around you*

I hate this ego bs. Be a real person or get out.

[Fuentes]

@chandelier8 good I would let u know from the gate how I am anyway, I don't pretend hahaha and u didn't say what u did and the hospitals are just hypotheticals that is a pretty rare case unless ur prone to being sick or have an auto immune disease or something. But for work it doesn't sound like your that busy, so theirs no reason to leave me on read fir two days while u can respond to me on a forum faster then that.

[Chandelier8]

@Fuentes Aren't you the judgey person? You know fuck all about me. I guess what I'm saying, and you're not processing, is I don't care about what you would do, you don't sound like a good person. I'm sure there are plenty of dumb girls, with no self esteem, that put up with your shit, but I'm not that kind of person and I don't know anyone like that. Depart from my presence or I'll block you.

[Fuentes]

Lol block me cause I'm forever me

[Chandelier8]

@Fuentes That's certainly nothing to brag about. I actually pity you.

[rachel776b]

with my boyfriend every chance i get with others as little as possible

[sawno]

Nearly every day. Exceptions are if I am either really busy, exhausted or there is something rare going on i'd rather spend my time with at that time.

[Chandelier8]

Same. Daily is preferable, sometimes hourly. :)

[sawno]

@Chandelier8 I come from an online relationship so hourly for us wasn't desirable. We both needed our alone time and lived in different timezones so we purposefully avoided the most interesting topics until we had our daily moment we could video chat. I expect to carry that over in in my future relationships where instead of constant talk during the day we just have a moment we spend some proper time together. Of course its always fun to share what your currently doing with your partner, but the quality time hours were really meaningful to me since we always used them for deeper conversations, affection and shared activity's we both enjoyed.

[Asker]

If this person doesn’t contact you daily, are you initiating every day or waiting a few days?

[Chandelier8]

Oh that's good, I like to talk daily (hourly in a new relationship) and on weekends talk more/spend time together.

[sawno]

Initially i'd stop contacting her altogether at some point perhaps once or twice until she initiates, but after that if she doesn't I will type deal. Its mostly to check if she's actually interested.

[Asker]

Makes sense okay

[MrCommodore]

Depends, might want to hide it and thus don't chat much.

[Asker]

Ohhh like trying to hide the fact you have feelings for them?

[MrCommodore]

Yes, for self preservation purposes, many guys would try not to show signs.

[Asker]

I think you are the most accurate here for my situation. Thank you. But you still try and keep in touch. Right? Comment on social media etc. but try to be low key in the DMs but still present. ?

[MrCommodore]

Obviously it depends on both people's availability, but generally yes still keep in touch. But purposely leave time gaps between mediates do as not to see too keen.

[Asker]

Thank you. It’s how I am so I’m glad to hear a guy may be the same way.

[BoopBoopBeep]

As much as possible, sure, but I'm busy and keep weird hours sometimes, so realistically it'll never be every day. I can usually muster a text or two every 24 hours at least.

[Ironic_Method]

I generally sont like talking for the sake of talking, but if the conversation is good then I could stand 1-2 hours a day max.

[syncheart]

I simply wish I had some people that I could talk to everyday for a few minutes. But I don't even get that much.

[NathanDavis]

we talk daily

[Anonymous]

If I'm not busy then daily

[Asker]

So if she doesn’t reach out to you, are you initiating daily contact?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope if she doesn't reach out to me then I won't chase her..

I have many options

[Asker]

But I thought guys liked to chase girls? Gah! Haha.

[Fuentes]

Probably never