They left on good terms despite the breakup, he’d still message her ever so often and they’d talk a little here and there. He met someone else quite soon after and as he was putting it on display she had to get her head around that, although it hurt at first she maintained a good level of friendship. When he later saw she was with someone else he completely ignored her from that point on. Why?
Woman left on good terms with ex so why would he not want to talk to her after she’s with someone else even though he got with someone else first?
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There is no reason to ever talk again. Why do EITHER care if they have contact with an ex? Move on. It is normal for your current mate to not approve of you keeping in contact with an ex lover.
That is not answering the actual question at hand. Curiosity is the point of questions on this site. You don’t need to justify your personal preferences here, validate them yourself and get on with it if that’s best for you and leave others to what’s best for them.
Yes, his girl doesn't want him keeping in contact with you... and he is moved on and has no reason to keep in contact with you.
I don't even know if some of my exes are still alive. They could be dead or live in China for all I know. I don't keep in contact with them. My wife would be super pissed if I started looking up exes to "touch base" with.
You can’t say that without knowing but it’s a possibility. You can still remain amicable while respecting the relationship.
Also if he’d genuinely moved on he wouldn’t have stopped interacting with me (an extreme behaviour change) at that exact point.
You can have an amicable split, but feelings remain, and so does pain
Thank you. So he feels hurt too seeing me with someone else so is ignoring me to punish me..
It's not to punish you. It hurts seeing you. As simple as that
He still watches my social media stories though
Also, if he’s moved on with someone he feels is better for him, why would he still feel that way? Ego? Or does he still miss aspects of us that he’s not currently getting. I don’t know.
He's clearly not over you, and since you also been checking if he is still looking at you, I don't think you are over him either...
The thing you need to understand is that any person can be with someone else and still love and miss his/her ex. Getting another relationship is not a sign of moving on
I know I’m not, I’ve come to realise that. Okay thanks for your help.
I think for myself and many girls I know it is, there in lies the confusion. Guys typically relationship hop. Myself and other girls focus on single healing first so we can give all to our next relationship.
I know some don’t and do in both genders though. But the above is just my general experience.