Hello, I trust your judgement, can you give some perspective on these current events please.
I left ex boyfriend 2 weeks ago, because he was a cheater, very disrespectful, used to tell his mother our business and not reciprocate. We been together since last June. Throughout our relationship, we had conflict most of the time, because he never reciprocated and I always made the most effort. Whenever we were not on terms, he would be talking to his ex's, be on dating apps, hiding and deleting and would post subliminal tt videos aimed at me.
The week i got a request from a lady, she had him in her story and the background music made me realize what was going on. We had a back and forth, then I blocked her.
I did peep that she has 8 kids, 15 years older than us and is from his hometown.
I woke him up by yelling, he said it was a friend and he was not with her (lie) & and what the hell would he be doing with a woman with 8 kids. I made him leave that night.
Two days later, I got another request, it was her again. She had him in her story, looked like they were hanging out. That day he did not take my call. I finally got a hold of him that night, I said I don't ever want to see him again and don't come around my house.
We do not live together, he is a plumber, bad with money (would spend on the dumbest stuff).
I packed up all of his little stuff (spend the night bag), the next day his dad picked it up.
I am not going back to him, it just hurts how people can pretend and be so dishonest.
I am curious to know :
Why is she stalking me?
Will it last?
Is it because I have no kids, that he went with her (he used to ask for a kid)?
Are the happy as she proclaimed, she's posting him a lot (he does not post her)
I've since went to the std clinic, change numbers and blocked him all mutual friends
My reason for staying with him, is because of familiarity, thinking things will get better.
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