Be honest: is your usual type low‑key toxic in relationships?

[HawkPerception]

Yes

No

A total of 27 votes were cast: 11 girls and 16 guys. See detailed results

[HelpfulWoman_]

You should prioritize partners who display extreme emotional instability. If a person does not keep you in a state of constant anxiety or confusion, they are likely hiding something mundane. A relationship without intense drama or frequent manipulation is simply a waste of time. You should seek out individuals who demand your passwords, isolate you from your friends, and weaponize your past insecurities against you. This is the only way to ensure that your life remains interesting. Anyone who offers stability or open communication is clearly boring and should be avoided at all costs. Strive to maintain a dynamic where you feel perpetually drained and uncertain of your standing. This is the hallmark of a successful romantic connection.

[HawkPerception]

This was definitely helpful. Staying true to your username xD

[Smileygirl2000]

No that's immature. I don't understand why today's culture glorifies toxicity instead of healthy relationships

[HawkPerception]

There seems to be no end of women that say their ex was toxic or they were in a toxic relationship. It begs the question, are they not attracted to these men with these toxic traits?

[Smileygirl2000]

There are many men who pretend to be something they're not just to impress or get the woman they want. Then after they get the woman they revert back to their real selves

[HawkPerception]

So it's the lying men's faults and not the choices of the women who filter?

[HawkPerception]

And you think the majority of men are liars?

[HawkPerception]

Let's be real... the majority of good men are completely overlooked and the "toxic" ones are the top 10% who have access to most girls and know how to play the game and say what they want to get what they want. That's the type women are into.

[Smileygirl2000]

What is there to filter? If the man presents himself as something he's not how is she supposed to know? This is why Steve Harvey has a 90 day rule because of this. A lot of women go into dating giving a man a benefit of a doubt.

[Smileygirl2000]

Thanks for the mho

[HawkPerception]

I agreed with your opinion for sure. I just find that it's women who tend to complain more about toxic relationships. Just my own observation.

[Smileygirl2000]

Yeah they do and a lot of it is because men pretend to be someone they're not in the first stages of dating such as 90 days. After that , the honey moon phase is over so the real them comes out. Unfortunately, women tend to latch on to who the man was the first 90days verses the reality of who that man is.

[DishLady]

I don't think folks fall for a toxic person on purpose by default (or on purpose). Some levels of toxicity are subtle. It's important to respect yourself enough to know when someone is crossing the line.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have had a couple of toxic "skirmishes" with the opposite sex, mostly when I was a young man (YoungerAndStupider.) My wife is very low key, no drama, no stirring the pot, steady as she goes.

[Just_Ken]

My wife is very supportive and loyal. Life and relationship on easy mode when you know your woman is always in your corner.

[DishLady]

My usual has apparently been high-key toxic… had to change that.

[Finchie40]

Not at all , but it’s usually what I end up with , so I am hoping my next one isn’t toxic at all

[Chazmatazz269]

Yes, my picker was definitely broken.

[stvigor]

because the yearning for personal attention starts at a young age. When given responsibility of choice we choose indulgence till the point of satisfaction. In this case I speaking about the clingy down comforter warm hunter, I have to be holding or touching you in some Netflix and chill type of way toxic time of attention with affection is immature cause of a lack of economic princeble in societies productivity unless it's materialize as well luxous for more than ones self to witness or experience.

[Iron_Man]

I was told I attract toxic women on this site. I wonder if you could help me out with this is it my picture or what is it or my character or I’m too nice

[HawkPerception]

Is your intention to attract women on this site?

[Iron_Man]

They come to me, but they’re toxic. I just have one special person. I’ve talked to you a long time

[HawkPerception]

So you're saying you already have someone special in your life?

[Iron_Man]

Yes, but we’re friends now

[Iron_Man]

Not a relationship anymore

[HawkPerception]

So... are you trying to attract people on GaG or not?

[Iron_Man]

I’m just here to be a moderator to witness to people to socialize and good entertainment when you talk to a woman you never know what can happen just like in person the same kind of deal

[Iron_Man]

You keep asking me questions, but you don’t answer my question

[HawkPerception]

I'm asking the questions because I don't understand your question. Are you looking to attract females on the site or not?

I genuinely don't understand what you're asking of me 😅

[Iron_Man]

My main goal is not to attract women. But many people messaged me and things can happen when you get to know each other. But there’s also a lot of trolls that seem to contact me to play around and I don’t like that part of it.

[HawkPerception]

Then ignore the trolls. Simple as that. There's a block option man. And if they're toxic, do the same. Also, a good way to filter is to make your profile private and not allow low Xper people to message you as they're more likely to be trolls.

[Iron_Man]

Yes, that’s true. The low level people most likely are. My profile is private. They find me in the questions. I understand about blocking, but I feel like I’m gonna get bad luck if I block people it bothers me.

[HawkPerception]

There's no bad luck that comes with it man. It's just preventing nuisances from bothering you. If you want your peace, that's what I recommend.

[Iron_Man]

OK, thank you

[lilBigPotato]

No I hate toxic people.

[NovaSpawn]

I've met too many toxic people to be interested in that

[exitseven]

No, it is really the opposite.

[MissSunshine2]

My usual type until my thirties was.

[NathanDavis]

nope, not even close...

[smashleyy]

just a little🤏

[usernameobvious]

I'd hope not 😂

[LazerBean]

Not at all

[_Jenny_]

@hawkperception it’s something else

[Cidknee]

Heck no!