If it is meant to be, is it meant to be?

[Anonymous]

Do you believe in this? That if two people are meant to be together it will just work out in the end. For example if two people break up if it is meant to be they will find a way to come back to each other somehow.

Yea I believe in that

No I don’t believe in this

[jennifer_bloom]

Almost everyone can find a partner if they lower their visual, financial or intellectual standards and know enough people. The thing is, most people have standards that not everyone is going to meet. So it’s not about who your soul mate is, because extreme attraction does not make the attractor your soul mate. And stubborn standards does not equate to entitlement or right of access to a desired partner. It is about emotional connection deep enough to drive out competing options: not about the depth of your attraction to a person.

[HollyK21]

Yep! This is actually one of the main pieces of advice I often give people.

[Sunrising]

I think if a relationship is meant to be, cupid will find a way of bringing Girls and Guys together.

But if a relationship is ever allowed to end, the couple would be very fortunate if cupid would find the time and effort to bring them back together again.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

I think stories like this can be true, but are not the rule

[Nikki1989]

The short answer: “If it is meant to be” only becomes true when choice, effort, and circumstance line up—not because fate pre‑writes everything.