Girls, how do you really look back on a good ex-relationship?

[Anonymous]

If a guy was overall good to you and not rogue. Do you just tend to remember the good bits about the relationship

I mainly remember the good bits

I mainly remember the bad bits

A mix

[DishLady]

I'll remember all the good/funny bits, but I also remember the one breaking point, bc otherwise I'd still be with that guy. I also remember a few red flags to avoid them in the future.

[Nikki1989]

I always appreciate the good times, but I don't dwell on them either. What’s done is done. However, I have remained friends with all my exes (except one), so they have never gone out of my life completely.

[Asker]

Is it hurtful if they disappear

[Abbycado]

I do. I don’t think about it much. Just some things trigger memories.

We broke up amicably and I hope he is well.