Long term who is the breakup harder for?

[Anonymous]

The person that got broken up with

The person that did the break up

If you get broken up with obviously that hits the hardest initially.

The individual that got dumped

The individual that did the breaking up

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I think it would be harder for the person that did the dumping as they have to look back and think was that the right decision

[HighValue]

It is harder for married men (she often steals most of what he earned in life) and for women in their mid 30s and older (they won't have interest from good quality men ever again for a serious LTR)

[LiamJHayden]

The person who less realizes that if both are not into it, it is better for the relationship to end rather than force it to continue on.

[Abbycado]

Depends on the person and how they take those things.

[Nikki1989]

The emotionally weaker of the two.

[Anonymous]

It shouldn't be hard for anyone long-term, after a reasonable period of time you should move on with your life.

[Alex-Snow]

I think the one who got dumped, but then again it would depend on why the breakup happened.

[Anonymous]

Whoever wasn’t mentally prepared for it in advance

[Anonymous]

Both