Do you think there is anything wrong with remarrying 16 months after your first spouse passed away?

Question

Donald Trump called Thomas Massie a loser after he got remarried 16 months after his first wife died. What I wrote above is a true story. You can Google it if you don’t believe me.

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

No, there's nothing wrong with it. What is the official waiting period we're all obligated to adhere to?

MasterKS · Accepted Answer

Its okay, live your life as you want.

HawkPerception · Answer

Everyone's free to live as they want. If you want to do OnlyFans or porn, you can do that. If you want to be someone who steals from others, you can do that. But just know, that there are consequences for your actions as well as labels. If you remarry 16 months after your partner passes, that's a pretty big signal that you never really loved them and a good tell that you're a scumbag. I also think it's an insult to their memory.

Finchie40 · Answer

No there is nothing wrong with it , what someone chooses to do in their life is up to them , nobody else can make that decision for them whatsoever , we just live in a society filled with judgmental people that like to talk shit and assume things they have no clue about.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Some become so depressed after the death of a spouse that they die within months or within 2 years, and if he is emotionally unable to cope with the death of his wife he should be allowed to self-heal in any way he wants, whether that means seeing a psychologist, taking psychiatric drugs, or getting married to a new wife, not everybody has friends and family that are close enough and loyal enough to help you cope with the death of a beloved family member.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

There is no simple rule for such situations. My brother remarried 7 weeks after his first wife died from a protracted fight with kidney failure. I think he is a jerk of the most exalted order.

DishLady · Answer

Ooof. Well I won’t judge it as “wrong” but it doesn’t leave time for grieving. Sounds like the other person was hovering in the background waiting to pounce….

molonski2 · Answer

A long illness makes it worse , so we know he was planning for a long time , so not emotionally faithful , 16 months ( after a LONG marriage ) is simply far too soon..

You need to actually on your own for a decent period , he has shown he was a complete pussy bcoz he had to have a woman the entire time , pretty weak., that's where looser comes from.

This happened to a couple I knew , great guy - he died after a 4 year battle with brain cancer , she never looked so good , until he was sick , all of a sudden.. Wow ! Married 12 months after death , works both ways.. shameful frankly.

Just keep private , be alone , grieve , and out of respect WAIT !

abc3643 · Answer

Something similar happened with my mother...

My father died in March 2003.
However, his widow, my mother became an official couple - not exactly married, but living as man and wife including with some contractual obligations - with a man who was a widower. It is a marriage without being married; they don't want to be married because they lose "survivor benefits". I consider him my step-father even though he's only 15y 3m older than me.
They just celebrated 20 years together last month, so they became a couple in July 2006; I know by the fall, they were living together if not before that. However, HIS late wife died in September 2005, so 10 months earlier before he became a couple with my mother.

I am fine with it. I am a little surpised at how quickly he moved on. (His wife died very quickly - less than a month between diagnosis and death.) Then again, my mother was a piece of ass and his late wife wasn't. So, from that perspective, I can understand.

Screenwriter · Answer

I don't know this person's situation. Maybe their spouse was ill a long time. Maybe their marriage wasn't so great, so it was a relief when the spouse died.

Whatever the case, someone came along who seemed appropriate. It was a second chance and he took it. I hope he can be happy.

whocares1972 · Answer

Men and women marry for different reasons. When my brothers wife died after 42 year's of marriage, he was remarried within less than 2 year's. He likes to be married, his lifestyle is to be married, that's all he wants. So, No I don't think there is anything wrong with being happy again and "living the dream " with someone new ♥️

RavVid · Answer

I would have doubts he wasn't a loser. You could hope a spouse would grieve over the death. Given people take time to decide to marry - it is bit more than starting to date again - it would seem that he hadn't spent that long mourning his first wife of 30 years.

RingOfFire · Answer

So let me get this straight. You ask a question whether others think there is anything wrong with remarrying 16 months after your first spouse passes away. Then when someone else has an opinion that differs from yours as an answer, like you say President Trump does, you say they should mind their own business?

LiamJHayden · Answer

No. Some people  need   to have a spouse. My dad did not even date in the three years between my mom's passing and his. A friend of his was married 40 years and remarried seven months after his wife passed. Each person is different.

Anonymous · Answer

lotta times when this happens, it's because the marriage was already been dead long before the spouse died. don't believe in the excuses people tell you: some people grieve differently... or some people can't live without a spouse. Truth is... the death of a spouse is traumatizing. if you can fall in love, date well while you are still traumatized.,.. it means you weren't grieving.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Well I don know how anyone could love someone enough to want to marry in a year but I don't think its a big deal if someone does. When someone you love dies you usually need a replacement, it makes getting over them easier.

exitseven · Answer

It depends on a lot of things. Maybe the marriage was a sham, he married for money, he already was having an affair with the new wife before the old one died.

Kelly56825 · Answer

I don’t think there’s a “right” amount of time to wait after losing a spouse. Sixteen months may seem fast to some people, but grief is deeply personal. Remarrying doesn’t mean someone stopped loving or respecting the person they lost. Life is short, and if someone finds companionship and happiness again, I don’t think they should feel guilty for choosing to live.

lightbulb27 · Answer

no,  he's having troubles with his own responsibilities like ending Russia war, ending Iran war, spirlaing debt, etc etc.. So he talks about someone elses pers life.

ellllltr · Answer

We don’t know what this man’s marriage was like behind closed doors so maybe we shouldn’t judge.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Grieving process is different for everyone. Would it be enough for me? Probably not. But I can't expect people to think as I do here

SeekerOfTruth007 · Answer

I think people are pretty dumb to date or marry at all. You're allowing yourself to be controlled by nothing more than animal instincts. It's pathetic.

EzraIsShy76028 · Answer

No? I don't see why it should be a problem. This is more of an individual preference sort of thing.

Billlewis · Answer

Damn right I do. Women rarely do this, but men do it all the time.

gasman70 · Answer

no, it's your life, if you truly found happiness then go for it, even though it's a very very short time after your last wife past to get married as far as the grieving period is, considering.

Just_Ken · Answer

Id check the life insurance policy and how long he was sticking it to the babysitter

MrChinaski · Answer

Trump called American veterans who died in Europe during WW2 losers. Say what you will about the guy, but he doesn't discriminate.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Who is the loser, I wonder :D The ones that feel the need to comment on each and everything that's not their business, perhaps?

Anonymous · Answer

It is a little close, but that is his business. It would be different if it was like 6 months. Also, his wife may have wished for him to find someone else.

AgentG111 · Answer

Everyone has their opinions. Who cares who says what. Life's short live it up dude wants to marry and be happy or miserable all the power to him

Anonymous · Answer

Trump cHeated on his first wife with his second and his second with his third and his third while pregnant with a porn star…I think his opinion on marriage is laughable no matter what he says lol

ThisSiteSux · Answer

Donald Trump hates Massie because he was a tru conservative and would not let people forget that Trump's entire cabinet eating and raped children with Epstein.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Given Trumps been married multiple times he shouldn't judge

_Jenny_ · Answer

@finchie40 I think everyone needs time to grieve, but 16 months is good

AngryCarl3 · Answer

No, this is approved by the church and state.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Trumpy is the looser!!! No there is nothing wrong with it as long as both people love each other.

noohair · Answer

This is common among some men. They can't function without a woman running things in the background.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Generally no, but maybe your kids would think you're betraying their lost parent.

Anonymous · Answer

Thomas Massie is a HERO in my book. But anyway, there is no limit in the amount of time that has to go by before you remarry. Especially if your 1st spouse has passed away

RepleteAura · Answer

I don't see why there's an issue. What abstract societal standard dictates the timing?

i_am_back · Answer

Once chapter closed im done bro  Will see you only in your funeral

postaldudePL123 · Answer

It's definitely wrong to judge others and not minding your own business

georgeboy2006 · Answer

16 months is that not too early 🤷‍♀️🤔

Nikki1989 · Answer

Why wait 16 months?

slatyb · Answer

Not at all, particularly after a long illness.

Anonymous · Answer

Most people do after a year.

canamlusciouslad73 · Answer

TUCK FRUMP !!!

wkhan_87 · Answer

No , nothing wrong with that

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes there is

Enginn · Answer

No its good

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