Why can’t I get over this girl I see all the time even though she’s taken?

[Anonymous]

i always see this girl at a specific place in our area , i'm just totally into her body but also really like her personality so really into her. she's not single but i'm still really into her and just like can't seem to get over it really , but to be clear i don't just like her body i do like her personally.

[jennifer_bloom]

It might be an evil spirit that is attaching her to you. I was randomly stalked for 3 years by a guy I insulted online after turning him down and I did not mention his name when I insulted him so it is not like I am guilty of gossip or doxxing. He is the only one who knows the insult was directed at him because I did not post his photograph or his name online.

But he was furious I mocked him online, and harassed me over the phone for over 3 years. Less than a year after the stalking began, he lost his job, and after God destroyed his career, he did not learn his lesson, and continued to stalk me over the phone. I usually check the obituaries to see if he is dead when I go more than 4 days without harassing phone calls from him. It unusual for me to go more than 3 days without being stalked by him over the phone.

[slatyb]

You will as soon as you start dating another woman.

[Asker]

but have to find a girl i found at least " as attractive " as her to truly get over her and that may be a challenge

[Anonymous]

Because you keep seeing her. Adjust your routine to avoid her.

[Asker]

i don't mind seeing her , she's changing her routine soon anyways and doing something school related in another area so won't be at that place again till next summer

[blshbnz]

Avoid her and move on. Respect her relationship.

[Asker]

i never see her boyfriend at that spot i see her , she appears ok with a certain amount of attention and we get along when we talk to each other but at times she perhaps appeared like maybe i was too into her and checked her out too much.

[blshbnz]

She probably just sees you as a friend, but yeah if she knows you’re checking her out then that’s why she’s distancing from you. Best to move on bro 😪