Am I the “experiment?”?

[Anonymous]

A white man has a crush on me, but we have no middle ground. All of his friends are white, he has no black friends, and all of his exes are blonde white women.. even the women that he shows attention to online are blonde white women. I am black.

The only similarity I see between us is he’s really into rap music and even creates it, but I haven’t said anything back to him yet because I don’t feel like he actually likes me. Am I holding myself back by not saying anything to him and accepting his advancement? or am I doing right by looking for more people like me around him?

i think since i would soon be a part his life if i accept that it’s ok to think this way? what if I accept and get cheated on because I wasn’t his type anyways?

I think he’s attractive, but I’m too afraid to accept the advancement because I don’t see anyone else around him that looks like me. Even his attention goes to women opposite of me.

what do you guys think?

[Chazmatazz269]

If you’re interested, take the chance but take it slow. Sometimes people think they have a type. Then a string of failed relationships can open their eyes to what might be a broken picker. So they try something very different. It might feel like an experiment and in a way it probably is. But it’s more about him than it is about you. Just take it slow and if you get the feeling he has some kind of weird hangup about your skin color, skidaddle. Otherwise, y’all might be good for each other!

[Asker]

ok. thank you.

[Chris009800]

I can only speak for myself. I don't know how he feels about you. I've only had one white girlfriend and I was married to a brown woman. I don't know any black women, but certain ones are really hot to me. I guess you'll never know until you try. Good luck with it.

[NathanDavis]

"he has a crush on me... I think he does NOT like me"

[MrChinaski]

Dive in and see. You'll have fun and see a different part of the world. And if you get crushed like a bug... well... we all do. Life is for living not for wishing you had lived.

[Pterodon]

I think you’re overthinking. I’m in a biracial relationship. You’re letting fear ruin what could be a wonderful relationship

[Iron_Man]

do you both like sports?