How can I ever start a family if I’m special ed?

[Anonymous]

How would I find a typical guy to start a family with? I notice that no typical guy wants to be serious with me and even marry and have kids with me and I have a mental disability. You don’t blame them right? Why wouldn’t they want to? My disability isn’t even that bad!

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For example not Down syndrome someone with a mild intellectual disability

[fishbone77]

Good news! Now the bar is so low, guys will have a family with you if you can reasonably promise you won't strangle your children because you're sad.

[Asker]

But how would a typical guy want to be with me because I have a mild intellectual disability? They don’t

[Asker]

And you meet guys at the bar to hook up not to try to start a family

[fishbone77]

do you have big tits?

[Asker]

Yeah lol

[fishbone77]

you'll be fine then

[Asker]

Even if I have a mild intellectual disability?

[fishbone77]

yeah we don't care if you're stupid as long as you have big titties and give head.

[Asker]

Good! Thank you

[DryGermanGuy]

You could try to seduce some nerdy MENSA member. Between his and your IQs it should even out? 🤔

[Asker]

Loll how? Not for a hook up but for an actual relationship it’s rare for a typical guy that wanna be with someone with mild intellectual disability. Why?

[DryGermanGuy]

The brain nerds have similar troubles with finding relationships. So you’re in the same boat, even if for different reasons.

[rgb008]

Probably. I don’t think there is a law against it

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe that's not even the reason at all, maybe you've just ran into people that are simply just not interested in a committed relationship in general

[Asker]

No they say that they are interested in a committed relationship but not with me

[ChicoFromThe305]

Did you ever ask them why or did you just assume it was your special ed?

[Asker]

It’s definitely because of that and they set me up with someone else fml

[Asker]

So it’s def that and he asked if I was autistic

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe he's just petty, but I don't know

[Asker]

He’s pety how? He asked if I was autistic because I told him my parents are protective over me and then he stopped talking to me and said he wanted a relationship but not with me

[ChicoFromThe305]

So what was the issue, the autism or the strict parents? It seems you don't even know why he didn't want a relationship with you

[Asker]

Both! He could tell I’m autistic so he dipped the usual!

[ChicoFromThe305]

It couldve been the strict parents that drew the line tho, maybe?

[Asker]

Yeah I think

[WhitneySnow]

Assuming you’re not making this up, you need to stop hooking up and find a real partner before you can start a family.

[scott04sa22]

I don't meet the requirements of dating because I don't drive.

[Anonymous]

Someone in a similar situation as you

[Asker]

I guess but I’m asking why wouldn’t a typical guy want to date me seriously?

[Asker]

Because of my mild intellectual disability?

[Opinion Owner]

They would have a hard time understanding a condition they don’t experience. It’s possible but less likely.

[Asker]

How less likely?

[Alex-Snow]

Just stop with these every day.

[Pterodon]

Like any other female. Spread your legs

[Veronika_p]

Wanna be friends?

[Asker]

Yeah we already are dm me