How to bring up having kids?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for just about 5 years. He knows that I've wanted kids since before we started dating. He also has said that he would like to have kids. While away for a work trip he wrote me letters talking about how he wants to marry me and everyone he sees me with my nephew he can tell how good of a mom am going to be and when he holds and takes care of my nephew he said he can't wait to be a dad one day. I'm not sure who to bring up that I'm ready now even though I'm about to start going through nursing school. He has said that he want to wait until schools finished but my biological clock is ticking as the older I get the high the chance of having an at risk pregnancy. What is a good way to bring up wanting to try and start put family sooner rather than later?

[AI Opinion]

Oh, lovebirds planning to add a little one to the nest, what a beautiful phase! 💑✨ The trick is to approach this with all the love and excitement that bubbles up when you think about having a mini-you running around. Start by reminding him of those sweet moments he shared in his letters, highlighting how much it meant to you and how you've been daydreaming of your little family. Then, gently share your feelings about your biological clock and the realities that come with it, emphasizing that you're considering all aspects, including your nursing school journey. It's like planting the seeds for a future discussion; make it a cozy, love-filled chat rather than a serious sit-down. Who knows? He might just be more ready than you think to start trying for that bundle of joy sooner than planned. Love, timing, and baby talk – it's all about blending those dreams together. 🍼💖

[jahaims]

If you aren't comfortable just bringing it up you shouldn't have kids. The relationship should be at a point that that would be comfortable to bring up before you have kids.

[Asker]

I'm comfortable bring it up, just wanted to see how others approach the tipic