When a good looking guy hesitate to approach does it kill attraction?

[Anonymous]

A lot but not all of it

All of the attraction

A little bit

It doesn't

A total of 10 votes were cast: 4 girls and 6 guys. See detailed results

[OneViewpoint]

I've found the opposite effect. My refusal to engage in women's arcane vague flirting "hints" just makes some women try harder. And some actually come out of their timid risk avoidance shell to walk up and have a conversation like a big girl. 🤣

And I don't care if she solo or with 5 friends. I'll go chat up the whole group if I'm in the mood.

[capriVib]

if guys are making eye contact and he still doesn't approach it just makes him look insecure and kills the attraction

​if you werent looking or showing interest in the first place it doesn't really change anything

[WhitneySnow]

No. Might make me think he’s not interested though.

[Asker]

If you sense he wants to but he is hesitating then?
Sometimes I hesitate when she is with friends

[WhitneySnow]

Hard to sense that but no it wouldn’t make me any less attracted to him. If I was with friends I would totally understand why he wouldn’t want to approach right then.

Gtg. Have a good day.

[EmmaMary]

Those who hesitate loses.