But what am I supposed to think? Isn't no kiss = no interest? And how am I supposed to get my first kiss then? I don't want to try too soon and get rejected again but I don't want to wait forever just for a first kiss to know I am doing things right...how long should I wait to try again?
Have any girls here said no to a kiss the first time but actually gone though and gotten in a relationship with that same guy?
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Man, you're in a deep sh*t!
This seems like a classic - the date goes perfect but no kiss.
Some women tend to date even those men they ain't attracted to because for them it's more fun than just sitting at home alone, and especially - if the guy covers the expenses.
If she would like you then there would be no reason at all why she wouldn't kiss you.
Name one reason why a woman who is attracted to you would not even kiss you after a great first date. I really wanna hear something.
Yes - there is an unwritten rule "no sex on a first date" as it may compromise their female dignity, but it definitely does not apply about kissing. It's ridiculous!
You know what you have to do? Find another chick.
Forget about this one and don't even consider asking her out again - because then you would compromise your male dignity!
Why should you do that? If you can find a girl who's much better?
She sorted her priorities and you're not on the top of them so you must not put her on the top of your priority list.
If she again may ask you out sometime - then consider it and maybe accept, but just maybe, and in such case don't spend a penny for her.
But then why are all the girls saying it's no biggie? And even half the guys say it's no problem? If she says yes to a second date, why wouldn't that mean she is interested? Afterwards we texted and she said she had a great time...
Girls are either frigid, religious or scared of getting close and guys usually lack assertiveness to stand for their interests.
This is why so many lads are whipped - they are afraid to stand for themselves.
You suffered rejection. It's nothing else than that. Why should you lose all your pride and expose yourself vulnerable to her again?
Oh.. and I guess you're not desperate to chase one chick who's not even really reciprocating?
Of course she may want dates with you again.. as a friend.. as someone who covers the bill!
But not as someone she's interested in. Because no sane girl would turn down a guy in any way if she's really interested.
Me and her only met a few days ago and she may have just been nervous. You seem to be super negative about it... Look at the girl up on top...she said she wouldn't kiss the guy no matter how interested she was. I highly doubt she is lying to me. The girl told me "not yet". She didn't say "umm...no". Key word: yet. Doesn't that make sense or am I just crazy? And I doubt there are many girls that would go out on a second date just for free food. And this girl seems down to earth
I understand you are interested in her, but you gotta realize this is about power.
You are providing her power by giving in. Let's say everything's fine after the second date and you wonder what the hell that moron here was talking about.
But make a guess - who's gonna hold the leadership role in that relationship?
Dude this is totally wrong and I'll tell you why! You shouldn't be applying this on every girl. The reason I'm here is because this thing happened with me just yesterday, I went on a date with this guy that found so attractive and I literally felt butterflies in my stomach, thing that I haven't feel since probably high school, we had a great time, before dinner we had drinks that I paid for, and then I wanted to share the dinner bill cause it was darn expensive and I was the one that chose the restaurant so I didn't wanna feel like I did that on purpose, he didn't let me but I insisted (so he didn't pay for my meal) after dinner we walked and he held my hand which I enjoyed, arriving to my car he hugs me and tried to kiss but turned my head towards his chest and hugged him. It was kind of awkward then he left quickly. Now the reason I did that is because I liked him so much and felt a huge and wanted more with this guy cause I thought he might be worth it
But I come from a kind of conservative background, and also won't share my saliva with a guy I just met even though I like him, maybe other girls other different I don't know these are jjust my personal thoughts