I am in love with a woman since 2 years ago who was rejecting me during long time for unknown reason, until she finally revealed me that she has been in a relationship with another guy. I see her everyday because we work together. After a while, thinking that I have no option with her, I dated another woman and 3 days ago we kissed. However, yesterday, the woman who was rejecting me, and I am still in love with, asked me out and told me that she broke up with her boyfriend and that she wants to be with me. I 'm so confused, because the woman I kissed seems liking me a lot from the beggining and I don't want to make her feel bad. At the same time, although I like her, I am strongly in love with the other woman and if I reject her I feel like I would regret it for my whole life.
Be upfront. Tell her that while you enjoyed spending time with her, there is someone else you have feelings for and want to pursue to see if things will work out. Apologize if she feels like you misled her, and hope the best for her-
It's one kiss, so hopefully she won't take it too seriously, however, if she does, tell her you enjoyed it, but there wasn't a "spark" there (basically you enjoyed it, but you don't have any deep feelings for her at this time).
And PLEASE don't be that person that says, "Let's stay friends." Because we all know no one stays friends after a breakup, and no one wants to hear that, male or female. Just gently break things off with her.
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"Hey, i'm done with this. It's fun but i'm out. Be careful out there."
I think you should be honest. Tell her that you have been dating someone else. That you’ll let her know if it works out or not.
Will it probably hurt? Probably. But if she’s a reasonable person she won’t be angry with you. It’s really neither of your fault. Just circumstances didn’t align
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