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A crush I’ve been talking to on and off through an app I’d asked to send me a voice and/or video message has declined that it’s awkward to do…
I’ve actually struggled with an increase of anxiety in the past year, this just hit it hard… and it’s making me cry because it’s quite embarrassing and sad…. It feels like he’s no longer interested or he’s now taken and don’t wanna tell me… I have other guys in the past who will send me a voice message, pics, or videos without a problem and/or even without me asking yet this is awkward for someone who claims he likes me and has done it a while back… I never felt so rejected by someone I care for and saying he liked me back… no, I’m not gonna ask why he feels awkward… At this point, I feel like he’s being forced by me and no one wants to make the person they care for feel forced nor uncomfortable… it’s just a bad feeling
I’ve actually struggled with an increase of anxiety in the past year, this just hit it hard… and it’s making me cry because it’s quite embarrassing and sad…. It feels like he’s no longer interested or he’s now taken and don’t wanna tell me… I have other guys in the past who will send me a voice message, pics, or videos without a problem and/or even without me asking yet this is awkward for someone who claims he likes me and has done it a while back… I never felt so rejected by someone I care for and saying he liked me back… no, I’m not gonna ask why he feels awkward… At this point, I feel like he’s being forced by me and no one wants to make the person they care for feel forced nor uncomfortable… it’s just a bad feeling
Updates
4 mo
Please no mean comments. I do want honest advices or opinions. My heart is just aching at this point…. it has been anxiety almost everyday with this guy… so this comment just hits harder….
What Girls & Guys Said
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If leaving a VM is hard for this man to do is that the kind of man you want anyway? If something ACTUALLY important happened, he'd be paralyzed in fear of having to do something.
No, I want someone who shows he cares and makes me happy… what do you mean the 2nd part? Um is he just expressing he’s no longer interested…
He can't send a voice mail so you can't depend on him to do something that matters either.
Oh it was a voice message… but I see what you’re saying… but my question was does this mean he’s no longer interested…
The why doesn't matter. Either he isn't' interested in you anymore, resulting in your need to move on, or he's got crippling anxiety and can't perform basic life tasks, in which case you need to move on.