I went on a date earlier in the week and I was really nervous. So much so that the whole thing was just really awkward. It was a 3rd date. I was nervous on the first date, the 2nd went a bit better and then this was back to square one with so much nervousness. Conversation didn't flow at all, it was really forced, and there wasn't much eye contact. I'm fairly sure that because it was so awkward she didn't really enjoy it and I don't think I'll hear from her again unless I contact her.
So, I want to text her and explain that I was really nervous and that's why things were so awkward/I came across as boring. I'm basically saying "sorry for a crap date, I was just really nervous. Will you give me another chance?". Can you think of a good way of saying this?
We weren't friends before we started dating, we just met on a night out. But we do have a lot in common. I'm nervous because I think we could be great together, so I really want...
I'll try asking her on another date and see how it goes. I know alcohol makes me a lot less nervous, so maybe I'll try to include that. I think once we get over the initial awkwardness, things might be alright. I'm not sure but I think she might be feeling the same.
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why are you so nervous? you need to realize she's only human... you're an attractive guy. I'm not nearly as attractive as you yet I'm successful with the ladies. I know it's easier said than done, but you need to relax/calm down. some girls might find it cute (at first), but if you keep being nervous, it's a turn off. don't apologize for being nervous (girls don't like guys who are too nice). tell her you had a bad day (tired/stressed out) and you want her to give you another chance (say it jokingly).3