Well it's not looking good. We only kissed once before this because she said she's uncomfortable with that kind of stuff and then I tried on the date and she rejected it. Sooooo I'm feeling like sh*t now. She also said how's she just really wants to be friends. I feel terrible because she is honestly perfect in every way. We have had a great time on every date but then this...F my life.
Damn! Sorry man...sounds like this girl..is either lonely...bored..or has an empty refrigerator! How long has it took to get to 4 dates? Dude... come on... don't say WE had a great time on every date...Yes..its possible she was good for 3 dates(highly unlikely)... then you put up some major red flags tonight? Tell me about the 3 dates... I'd like to help you out..make sure this doesn't happen again.
No like seriously, all the dates were amazing. It took me 3 weeks to get 4 dates. And one of those weeks was spring break so it's like 4 dates in two weeks. Before our 4th date we were texting and she said she has an amazing time with me and we always find a way to have fun. We spent a total of 26 hours together on the 4 dates combined. And the 4th date was really good also. Just at the end I tried to kiss her and she said she wasn't ready for it.
She told me after the date in text she would be happy being friends. Do you want to read the whole thing? I just posted a new question...it's in the behavior section and is titled "what does this text mean?" It's kind of long but I would really appreciate it if you could read it and answer it. Thanks in advance :)
Man you moved way to fast with this girl. If she really had good interest level in you at the beginning, then you burnt her out. ONE date a week max! 26hrs in 4 dates! in the future 2.5 hr dates unless there is a good reason. She told you before, she didn't like the kissing... this was your cue to drop her! Her friend text..means she never wants to go out with you.. Again..if a girl ever rejects a kiss... she's out! A girl with high interest in you will NEVER reject a kiss from you..
26 hours because we always had a ton of fun together like I said. And to add on to that, over spring break we texting about 150 times each and we talked on yahoo messenger for about 5 hours also. We have a ton of fun talking to each other. That seems like an amazing base for a relationship.I was her first kiss EVER. She is just uncomfortable with that kind of stuff. She's never had a boyfriend before either. So that could be why...
Hey... Please.. calm down... breathe... I know your upset and excited and confused. You need to focus..Trust me.. I can't help.. until you are ALL ears and READY to listen to every word...
Because I'm challenging your opinion and you don't want that? If your opinion was so correct, you'd have a good answer for all of the things I said. I am calm right now. I'm down, sad, and a little depressed. Hyped up is the opposite of where I am right now.
Ok... I want to answer all your questions.. but it sucks when I only have 500 characters to do so. this would be easier to talk by sending regular messages... would you agree to that? If so just message Me...bassman.
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(and I'm totally interested in a relationship with this guy -- however, every relationship's different, and moves at a different pace).