Give him two days, maximum. If he's interested, then it shouldn't take him longer than two days to follow up and contact you. If he decides to play by some arbitrary rules that are somehow meant to make him not seem desperate, then he's probably not worth your time anyway. So if the text comes on the third day, I'd recommend telling him no thanks because you figured he wasn't interested.
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you didn't say for him to call you, so its not urgent for him... I'm not saying you should have said that, I'm just saying if you had heda called/texted you a bit sooner
the girl I like/trying to become friends with told me to call, so I did the next day (today)
he'll probably give the 3 day rule or so, if not, then he's not interested
I would say 2-3 days... from my experience
good luck :)
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the usual time for guys (sorry guys I'm giving away one of the rules ... :-( ...) is that we should usually wait 2 or 3 days so we don't seem desperate, like we have busy lives too. because we don't want to creep you out by calling the same day.
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