There is this guy I like and he likes me too. anyway, we are just friends but there is this uncanny connection between the to of us. when we go two or three days without talking to each other its crazy. anyway he is on my Facebook and he saw my swimsuit photos, I knew something was off with him because he was being very abrupt with me when we are talking. He finally started talking and he said that he doesn't like the fact that I had those pics up, said he knows me better and he felt disappointed and sad. he also said that it made me look cheap and he went on saying how guys making all sort of comments. he wasn't really angry but he was obviously hurt by it. I like this guy but we are just friends. I am not so innocent either, cause I saw where this girl keeps liking and commenting on his pics and I was furious but I did not say anything to him because I know that we are not dating. So after he went on stating his case I asked him if he had feelings for me and he admitted that he does. I like him but I do not know if we are going to be able to control our emotions. with both our display of jealousy...I have strong feelings for him but should I tell him?
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You said it yourself. You are NOT dating. Imagine if you were...he would be worse, maybe even emotionally, physically, mentally abusive. Personally I would warn my daughter off of this.
It also comes down to double standards, does he have like or similar photos on his wall? Does he 'like' similar photos on other peoples walls?
He knows you better? What is that supposed to mean? He can not know you better then you know yourself. I mean if you like the picture of you enough that you can post it on the wall, who is he to say that HE knows you better. As insecure as girls are anymore due to weight, bust, butt and other attributes I applaud you for not showing those hangups and being secure enough in your own mind and body to post the pics on your wall.
Even with strong feelings, it is hard almost imposible to change someones ways. Find an ex, ask if he was like that or worse. I mean in the end, mentally and physically it is your life that you are playing with, use your mind not your emotions.