This girl from college definitely knows I like her, so unfortunately the mystery is already gone. Though she may be interested and I want to keep my options open for next semester. So how often do you guys think I should text her? My buddy says I shouldn't text her at all unless she texts me so I don't seem clingy/desperate but I feel that's a little drastic. Any thoughts are appreciated.
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Frequency of texting is much less important than what you text. Be interesting, be brief. Preferably, only use texting as a means to arrange a time to hang out. You can also say something like, "I have a 5 minute break and there's only one minute left, but I just had the sudden urge to say, hi! :) That is all. Bye". When you end the conversation and take all the pressure off her to respond, it keeps you in control.
Coming up with a game is also a good strategy. For example, you could see if she'd want to compete and see who's funnier by exchanging a joke every day. Alternatively, you could start a poke war or other game on FB. That way, it's pretty low key contact, but you can always escalate it when the semester starts up again.0