Polls: Dating

Obviously both would be ideal 😂 but in the absence of perfect, what do you choose?

Say he's 35 years old and is bold...

We have been chatting on and off for 4 months. I sensed he just wanted casual so i politely moved on. Didn't talk for 2 months. Then he started lingering around my workplace so I reached out to hang out. We caught up and he got upset at me claiming that I like to flirt with guys and tease them and then give them nothing in return. I told him I'm not on apps like he is and I only flirt with guys I'm attracted too. I basically felt like I has to validate him that I'm not flirting with anyone atm. He wanted causal? Will he try attempt again to see me?

Please help me understand. What chance do you give he will make contact with me again out of 5.

What is going on, what do I do?

She dumped him a year ago for his best friend and his divorce was just finished in June. He swears he’s over her but he vanishes and gets depressed still over her. We have been talking a little over two months.

So I kinda like this guy, but our current relationship is the definition of sibling love. I personally don't want him getting ideas (although I like him, I'm not ready for any kind of romantic relationship right now.) I am going on a group date with some friends- that he is acquainted with, but not super well. I've been wanting to ask him out, but is it a good idea?

Mmm I don’t really care what you think, I just want y'all to know how I be feeling. Lol

Personally I feel like I am average looking and that people generally just look at others without thinking much.

Sometimes I'm very insecure and then my boyfriend tells me that a lot of people stare at me when we're outside.

28F, I've been asked if I’m asexual when I share my lack of sex drive & dating experience. I haven’t masturbated in years or had sex, if I never have it again I don’t think I’d be too upset. I don’t know if my looks are the issue I don’t think they are, there’s clearly a lot of other people worse off that find relationships lol. I’ve only used the dating apps since I don’t have a social life, getting likes/matches/msgs aren’t the issue it’s finding a connection. I find a lot of men attractive, have celebrity crushes etc. I’m attracted to men but with the men I’ve communicated with throughout the years, I’m turned off by their asshole tendencies. I know there’s good guys out there, regardless of how genuine they seem deep down I know they’re conceited & that behavior will come out eventually. Maybe I’m bitter or just lost interest in finding a guy to date, in a way I feel like I’m saving myself from that unnecessary frustration. I have a very short fuse but I’ll let you all put in your two cents

I was discussing this with my friend. I told her that no girl would ask a guy that unless there was mutual attraction because it can give off the wrong signal otherwise.

moreover, asking a guy that question is a signal that the girl is also interested, no?

Why would you rather date turk and why would you rather date Israeli

If this guy was your ideal type aside from his height would you date him?

I’m trying to decide whether I about the height of the guy I’m crushing on I’m 5’7” and he’s about 3 inches shorter than me (though I might just be over estimating him in my head so he might be like an inch or so)