Is it normal to feel like you're giving up control over your life and being scared of missing out when moving in with your SO?

[Anonymous]

Yes it's normal

No it's not normal

[Guy13]

That is not normal and how much do you need to realize you are not ready for this kind of action...

[jayhams]

If you are scared of missing out you aren't with the right person. You should have control over you own life even while living with your s/o

[Anonymous]

No it’s not normal and if that’s how you feel then you need help.

[WildCard42]

I was obsessed with my ex when we moved in together.

I had been single for a long time and didn't want to be away from her.

[Anonymous]

Largely not normal. I mean I can get you having jitters of "is this THE person for me". But if that pervades your thinking more than not you are definitely NOT with the right person. If you even should be with ANYONE.

[inhua]

what are you missing out on?