Polls: Dating

I have seen this stuff said before tho seeing it on the rise lately with videos from pearlythings & femsapian. I discovered them unintentionally pop up in my feed. They are all over & some people seem to gobble it up. Each video is recycling of these points:

Women expire after 25.

A women dating around will not only not help her learn what kind of partner she wants, but will destroy her ability to bond and make her ineligible used goods.

Women should marry young as a virgin, or no one will claim her and her life is meaningless.

If a women chooses correctly, she will derive great pleasure from obeying her husband.

Women having careers is the downfall of civilization.

Men don’t want to marry women who support themselves.

Women owe men their entire lives bc men must support them financially.

A marriage can not be a partnership thus is offensive to a man. A relationship must have a leader and someone who obeys otherwise it Is disrespectful to ken and only hateful loud mouth cheating aggressive women who don’t respect anyone l, want a partner instead of a leader.

Men expect obedience no matter what is happening within the marriage.

If the marriage is abusive, the woman chose poorly.

Young men are not under a time constraint bc they can marry later. They have time to date around.

A man should be a decade or so older then the women to make the marriage work.(despite the fact marriage in average is 3 years age difference plus or minus, either gender)

Women need an older men to lead them bc they are irrational and can’t navigate life.

A real woman will stay by her husbands side no matter what.

Birth control makes women lazy unaccountable & should be abolished.

Pregnancy is 💯 a woman’s responsibility.

—Femsapian has been divorced and dated around a lot.

—Pearly things is not a virgin nor pregnant but calls for abolishing birth control.

… Do these people consider what they are saying or do they not care as long as their audience subscribes.

I dont know is it just me? Cause I be having strong feelings for one person but I don't wanna be with him... like fuck off..

Anyone can relate?🤔

Hi, so I've been chatting to this guy I met at a coffee shop for 2 weeks and gone on 2 dates with him, no sex yet but have kissed. Because he come out of no where I'm not sure what to do. I am very tied up to my job and school at the moment and need to focus for a good 2-3months until holiday break. I don't have time to date atm. I really like him and I'm sure he really likes me too. He is also quite a busy person. I don't want to lead him on, but I also don't want him to think I'm not interested. What should I do?

I'm thinking I cool down or pull back a bit, because I need to focus, then reach out and see if his free to hang later after 3 months.

Again I'm worried we will get too deep and I can't be there for him as of yet.

In this scenario you have to choose. Staying single/dating someone else isn't a option.

And also if you want in the comments say if you are pro life/pro choice cuz I feel like that could have a effect on some of yalls answers.

27F, I may sound entitled but from my gut feeling and experiences in life, I know how these things play out on the apps. That’s my only avenue bc I don’t have a social life, I use them very very casually. This has happened a few times where I ask if the guy wants to message on social media bc I don’t check the apps often, they or I give my account info, we add each other & I wait for them to message me. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don’t. From what I noticed in my life even if I take initiative & it usually doesn’t work out, it goes a bit further if the guy makes the first move. I asked a guy Wed about msging on social media bc I don’t check app often, add him on IG, he adds me back, views my story & likes a photo of my dog & I but doesn’t reach out? He views all my stories but never initiates? If by tomorrow he doesn’t reach out I’m unfollowing him

As i mentioned a while beck I said yes to a women I work with who Ashlee me out bc I like her as a person and bc she’s cute and bc she asked and bc I had no hard reason to say no & I like to stay open minded. It went well but it was like hanging out with a friend, as expected.

i recently asked out a guy to kind of get rid of the feeling I had from going out with someone I’m not properly into. I’m just wondering I’m not into anyone now or if it was bc I’m not bi.

I didn’t ask him out in hopes of starting any relationship & definitely not to have sex just to go on a date & see how it goes. I think that’s ok bc not much should be expected from one date anyhow. But I’m not sure.

It shows me that they actually like me and find me attractive. If I were to approach a guy and he dates me, he might say yes but in my opinion that doesn’t mean he likes me or thinks I’m super attractive. I’m in the mindset that It just means he finds me acceptable enough to date me but if a girl he really likes comes around, HE WOULD APPROACH. therefore he might want her more or even cheat since he wasn’t the one who initiated with me in the first place

TLDR: because if a guy really likes you, he would approach you. If he doesn’t and you do the approaching, you most likely like him more than he likes you.

Of course it will vary depending on many factors — just wondering what the most likely scenario is in your opinion. What do you think?

I wonder how many people think that way even though it seems archaic. I am interested in white men (as well as Indian men) and I am an Indian so not the palest shade of white. I do find pale white men exotic and interesting. I also like tanned white men but I find the pale ones more authentic. Looking for some honest opinions.

I saw a video of a girl giving a guy flowers and he loved it. Just wondering what the majority of you would say.

27F, I may sound entitled but from my gut feeling and experiences in life, I know how these things play out on the apps. That’s my only avenue bc I don’t have a social life, I use them very very casually. This has happened a few times where I ask if the guy wants to message on social media bc I don’t check the apps often, they or I give my account info, we add each other & I wait for them to message me. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don’t. From what I noticed in my life even if I take initiative & it usually doesn’t work out, it goes a bit further if the guy makes the first move. I asked a guy Wed about msging on social media bc I don’t check app often, add him on IG, he adds me back, views my story & likes a photo of my dog & I but doesn’t reach out?

TL; DR: ask guy from dating app to add/message each other on social media, he likes photo of my dog & I but doesn’t message me, not interested?

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