myTakes: Dating

I used to wear my heart on my sleeve. A few years ago, when I was interested in getting into a relationship I would talk to only one guy. Doesn't sound bad right? Well, I would put all my time and energy into this guy. I...

My brain won’t ever switch off. Ever. Whether it’s worrying about work, what people think of me or why that text hasn’t been responded too in 5 and a half minutes, my mind goes into overdrive and it produces a series of...

1. Pull back Just when he thinks he has you, you need to hold your ground and mark your boundary. Act independent and don't show your eagerness all the time. Make sure that he knows that he has to put in effort to keep...

1. I love my freedom First and foremost I love that I can do whatever I want, whenever I want, with whomever I choose. I don't have to worry about boundaries or even question whether I am doing anything wrong in terms of...

All this talk about double-standards and hypocrisy on the part of the Democrats after the presidential election got me thinking. I've been reading a lot of questions and myTakes on here about how men and women view each...

I remember when I first met you. I'm usually awkward when I meet new people but with you, things just clicked. I didn't see you as more than a friend at first, but I did realize that there was something about you that was...

No one and I mean no one knows how to talk to people anymore! Ironic considering my username: 2shy2speak isn't so 2shy2type. These dating apps are infiltrating 21st century love culture. Compare it to food if you must;...

1. Password protect phone/computer/social media Always make sure that you are careful about the accessibility of your communication devices. If you need to buy a pre-paid phone, or even set up an email account. 2. Use...

1. Experienced in bed Let's be honest, older men have been around the block with a lot more partners than younger men. So they will know exactly how to treat you in the sack 2. Financially stable Most likely an older man...

1. He will avoid seeing you If a guy isn't into you, he won't make an effort to spend time with you and get to know you. Simply put he will not go the distance. 2. He doesn't call/text you This one is simple. If you...

1. It's legal Fully grown men may not become romantically involved with teenage girls, because such behavior is a sign of paedophilia; and paedophilia is illegal and wrong. To be safe, fully grown men should only date...

1. Turn ons & Turn offs Nothing will make your sex life better than knowing what the other person enjoys and could do without. Going into the whole thing blindly isn't optimal. 2. Frequency If one person expects it daily...

1. It keeps my sex life exciting Let's be honest, having more than one keeps the variety and sexual experiences exciting. I couldn't imagine only having one partner at a time. 2. Why just settle for 1? Unless you're...

1. The Pervert Probably has a foot fetish. 2. The one who hates everybody You don’t understand his purpose. 3. The Romeo The one who wants to marry as soon as possible. He will propose to you even without knowing you....

What? How come? You know what? I can honestly say there is something to this, but not what you might think by it. It is this: if you love yourself you'll never see anyone as good enough for you (or you'll rarely meet a...

1. His many female friends If your man is spending time with lots of females and doesn't care what you think about that...then don't waste your time. Chances are, he did it before and he will do it again 2. No apology,...

1. The stingy one Sometimes they won’t have enough money even for a cup of tea. 2. The extremely jealous one They will consume you over time. 3. The one who always gives you subliminal messages You must listen these...

Most of us grew up with the notion that there was one day going to be some version of prince charming or the vision of a princess out there for us. You know, first comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby in...

1. He is calling/texting her a lot If your man is talking to your friend a lot, especially when you're not around, then something is up. Unless they are planning your surprise birthday party, he is planning to give her a...

1. You can date freely The best part about being single is having the ability to date as many different people as you wish, and learn about what you want and don't want. You don't have to commit and can experience the...