Questions: Dating

these type of things keep happening to me.


Okay here s what happened:

i ve been working in this company for around a year. When i first got here there s a guy (i would call him A) in finance department, a manager, and the boss s brother.

there s a HR , really like gossiping, keeps telling me to consider dating A. I was like “ i dont know him at all” then she even started thinking about planing on a hangout/event. I casually rejected.


One time we were in a Christmas party at the office. He did sths and said something that made others thought he was defending me. Then the people started smiling at me.

but i dont think i can date people from my workplace. It might turn into nightmares… or it could be a trap so they can make fun of me.

I ignored them for months. Then they started calling me arrogant / waiting for people to chase. I was annoyed so i told them i reached out to a speed dating company. They have stopped.


RECENTLY THEY STARTED IT AGAIN. And one person sent me pic of him talking to another girl told me to make a move or else it will be too late. I was little bit sad at the beginning but now i m alright.

what would u do if u were me?